They are never asked. It just a party trick to degrade a blk chick. A bonding phenomenon.
To be honest, it’s actually gotten better in part b/c blk women started standing up for themselves online.
From around 06-16 it was open season on any blk chick that couldn’t pass a paper bag test. White dudes and chicks used to like and laugh at disses blk dudes would say to blk chicks online. They used to create entire hashtag threads.
#nodarkbytches
#nodarkbutts
#whitechicksevolving
Dudes would be out there putting out party invitations telling people to make sure no blk bishes were there. Saying blk chicks were good for physical abuse b/c u couldn’t see the bruises on their skin. This shyt is a cultural phenomenon.
It wasn’t until blk chicks started checking this shyt and calling for endorsements and pockets to get touched that a lot backed off. Which is what they should have been doing in the first place instead of crying over these dudes.
There’s a reason why Chris Evans ain’t gon wake up talking about Adele being unattractive. Why Justin Beiber ain’t taking pot shots at Taylor Swift. Why them Korean BTS stars know to shut the hell up about Asian chicks even tho a lot of Asian chicks be talking MAD shyt.
Their female consumer demographic would leave them overnight. Meanwhile in the past blk chicks were still bopping their heads to Chris Brown and singing along to “deez bytches ain’t shyt, fukk a bytch if she ain’t light, god I can’t stand deez hoes” anthems.
A lot of this shyt is black women’s fault for enabling these a$$holes for so long.
Only make moves with those who love you. Pay the rest dust.