Yikes. Some black American males are so hateful. This is why our parents tell us to stay away from them I can see why. Before I used to think it was them being snooty but I can totally see why now. This is why if women from my continent aren't with men from their countries (if they move abroad of cause) they go white. And I think it's a (enslaved descendants) thing cause some non African black males are like this too but non like black American males.
Anywhoo... Girl in the op did very well. They will have cute kids. And the father will be around. Non black males are just so yum!
I notice this with almost ALL foreign black women i run into.