In my experience, the dudes who whine and complain about women not being submissive are dudes who exhibit no leadership qualities and/or have fewer resources/less intelligence, less ambition, etc. than the women they’re entertaining.
I’ve dated a guy whose judgment I didn’t trust, and my interactions with him reflected that. I was never rude or condescending but he never gave me a reason to trust him when it was time to make decisions. I know he wished I’d just go with it, but him simply being a man wasn’t enough.
I dated another man who I was extremely submissive to, and it was great. I thought I wasn’t a submissive person before him but I realized I just hadn’t met anyone who inspired me.
Submission is natural for women when the dude is worthy.
I’ve dated a guy whose judgment I didn’t trust, and my interactions with him reflected that. I was never rude or condescending but he never gave me a reason to trust him when it was time to make decisions. I know he wished I’d just go with it, but him simply being a man wasn’t enough.
I dated another man who I was extremely submissive to, and it was great. I thought I wasn’t a submissive person before him but I realized I just hadn’t met anyone who inspired me.
Submission is natural for women when the dude is worthy.