Is the club scene still the place to go to smash broads? How easy is it these days?

[MajesticLion]

invite-only private house parties >>>>>>> club scene



gotta say respect due to the little hole-in-the-wall sweatbox spots out in the sticks keeping the faith, no pretending and posturing just good times

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Drunk, high on weed, probably ecstasy, molly, coke, and def shrooms........... All with nothing to go home to but sorrow.......


Yea... It's still like fish in a barrel... Triple for the MILFs

 

[Ghost Utmost]

I started clubbin clubbin after my divorce.

Over 30 and still on a puzzy mission. Actually, finally learned to dance a lil and met the majority of my chicks face to face.

A dance floor was the key for me. The act of getting into the groove together speaks 100 times louder than chit chatting. You can know in 5 min what you need to know about your ability to connect.

 

[O.Red]

The club scene pickup game been dead and black folks are the last to realize it

Find some events in your city. Free or otherwise. Even better if you already have a hobby or interest that attracts women. The bigger the city the more there is to do but even if you're in a smaller town you can find something.

 

[MicIsGod]

I go to have drinks and hear music with my friends. Anything else is extra.

 

[Sbp]

Hotel roof bar venues usually has oyounger/older millennials .. those spots do not focus on tables/sections .



Usually filled with 9-5 types who come out once a month and tryin to avoid the club scene.

This has been my steez for a minute now

 

[Sbp]

Damn ya'll be kissing hoes on the dance floor

It happens

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

From the perspective of someone who doesn't drink, and sits at a vip table every time, with all the ballers, it's mostly for validation for men and women. Strangers who go home with each other is rare, people who go to after parties and maybe hook up, is more common, but they/we usually all know each other anyway. The club just provides the alcohol and context to get to the point where people can feel uninhibited enough.

What most people realistically do is exchange social media and numbers of people they will never see again. or see at the club the next week and do the same thing.

if you were to examine all their phones, you would see contact after contact like, with the name and the venue to help ID them

Lisa hookah

Vanessa Sidebar

Rita Oxford

Maria afterparty

and then like a text with a name or a WYA at 3:37 AM that goes unanswered.

Post Covid world
Women are in fear these days and won’t just randomly go back home with someone they just met..


Women ten years ago were way more adventurous
Strangers would car pool and continue the night in another location

 

[re'up]

Post Covid world
Women are in fear these days and won’t just randomly go back home with someone they just met..


Women ten years ago were way more adventurous
Strangers would car pool and continue the night in another location

Think it goes back longer than COVID some of that is just a generational shift. Women that were maybe 30 in 2015, had a different world view, and different experiences and influences. It was the Obama era, very liberal, very open, very post modern feminism. I can't tie it all together in a forum post, but there's something like shifting norms and values, different drugs, attention spans, and social media x3.

Social media is the biggest thing that has probably impacted everything. The younger women look just frenzied. Like the 22 year olds. They are like hyper distracted, and chaotic. And anxious, to hear younger people interact, is just a extremely anxiety ridden. And anxiety and sex....don't go together.

There's still the random threesomes and the after party wild nights, but it's not the norm, or even common if you were talking statistically. I tell this to my homies all the time, and they know it too. Around 2008-2015, was kind of the height of millennial hook up culture, which is different than the next generation. I think a lot of them aren't as sexual in reality, moreso on social media.

 

[The God Poster]

Bar, club, lounge, gym, outside or inside. Let’s be real a lot of y’all ain’t smashing nothing regardless of the setting

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Think it goes back longer than COVID some of that is just a generational shift. Women that were maybe 30 in 2015, had a different world view, and different experiences and influences. It was the Obama era, very liberal, very open, very post modern feminism. I can't tie it all together in a forum post, but there's something like shifting norms and values, different drugs, attention spans, and social media x3.

Social media is the biggest thing that has probably impacted everything. The younger women look just frenzied. Like the 22 year olds. They are like hyper distracted, and chaotic. And anxious, to hear younger people interact, is just a extremely anxiety ridden. And anxiety and sex....don't go together.

There's still the random threesomes and the after party wild nights, but it's not the norm, or even common if you were talking statistically. I tell this to my homies all the time, and they know it too. Around 2008-2015, was kind of the height of millennial hook up culture, which is different than the next generation. I think a lot of them aren't as sexual in reality, moreso on social media.

Also The MeToo era In 2017 really put nails in the coffin; the battle of the sexes has always been tense but the MeToo era made the sexes the bitterest of enemies…then genders And then there’s porn

 

[Kingshango]

You know how some dudes would would just stay on the wall at the club just waiting for something to happen? Imagine a whole club like that plus smartphones everywhere.

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

Think it goes back longer than COVID some of that is just a generational shift. Women that were maybe 30 in 2015, had a different world view, and different experiences and influences. It was the Obama era, very liberal, very open, very post modern feminism. I can't tie it all together in a forum post, but there's something like shifting norms and values, different drugs, attention spans, and social media x3.

Social media is the biggest thing that has probably impacted everything. The younger women look just frenzied. Like the 22 year olds. They are like hyper distracted, and chaotic. And anxious, to hear younger people interact, is just a extremely anxiety ridden. And anxiety and sex....don't go together.

There's still the random threesomes and the after party wild nights, but it's not the norm, or even common if you were talking statistically. I tell this to my homies all the time, and they know it too. Around 2008-2015, was kind of the height of millennial hook up culture, which is different than the next generation. I think a lot of them aren't as sexual in reality, moreso on social media.

2008-2015 was lowkey the beginning of the incel wave tho. Eliot Rodger went nuclear in 2014 and red pill/mgtow started to bubble online so obviously everyone wasn't eating.

If you an anime watching "nikka nerd" it's definitely easier to eat now compared to 2009 or 2014.

 

[re'up]

2008-2015 was lowkey the beginning of the incel wave tho. Eliot Rodger went nuclear in 2014 and red pill/mgtow started to bubble online so obviously everyone wasn't eating.

If you an anime watching "nikka nerd" it's definitely easier to eat now compared to 2009 or 2014.

That's a good insight. Wonder how that fits in. Lot of backlash in America, after the 2008 Recession, plus Obama Election. Occupy Wall Street. Rise of the Tea Party. Rise of Gamergate. Rise of Populism. Bernie Sanders. Trump.

but, none of those people were buying bottles and tables in 2012 lol or now

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Lounges, Bars, IG & Discord is all you need

Edit: Amazon also