Society doesn't respect a man with his hands out. Never will. The faster black men realize this, the better. Look at history and tell me what you see. Women and babies getting rescued and support, men are expected to stay and fight.
When will y'all realize that as a black man it's either adapt or die? The only dudes mad at black women's success are bitter losers who refuse to get anything going for themselves.
Black men are mad at black women that use their success, turn around and act like white supremacists while talk that "bootstrap" talk when much of that social lever was GIVEN to them to fracture the black community in its entirety. That is by all means, treasonous and off code. Even if black women got all that power they earned themselves, for them to turn their backs on black men and belittle them as any KKK member, is c00nish. I bet you that if black men have that power, they would give back to other black men and help black women build black families.