When you say this, how do you envision this happening?
BTW, props for entering this convo.
The BM who have resources and wealth coming together to build more. In other words, say your a breh who's an attorney and you know a few other brehs elsewhere that are also attorneys--why don't all of you eventually come together and start your own firm? The brehs who are celebs, yes they do great things for their communities--we need more of that, more brehs coming together to build schools, to create programs for little boys, to come in and mentor little boys, to encourage more black boys to get into STEM careers and go to HBCUS. More black brehs coming together to police neighborhoods (especially from gangs) the same way we see crazy Karen's and Brads policing their neighborhoods calling the police on anyone who looks suspect. More brehs getting on the brehs who are commiting the violence in our communities, killing children, women, and making them so unsafe. Brehs coming together and using their money to buy land, to buy communities, to start businesses and hire more of us at the businesses. Brehs teaching financial literacy classes, entreprenership classes, and other vital skills to young brehs to help set them up for life. More brehs being involved in their children's lives--people constantly bring up single mothers and it's a fair point, but the mothers are the ones who stick around, the men don't, and women can't raise a boy into a man, only a man can. We need more men involved in their kid's lives, even if they aren't involved withe the mother. Honestly I feel like more brehs should probably even get full custody of their sons starting at certain age, but that's another point. Starting more organizations to support boys. One advantage I see white parents doing is they take their little boys camping and hunting, teaching them survival skills and other masculine activities at young ages. We need more brehs reframining what is masculinity--tying it to other activities outside of their dikks, rap, and other things that have honestly been very harmful to brehs overall.
We need black male teachers and probably black male schools. As men, there's expectation for you to be the leaders. To lead the change you want to see. Yall complain about our community being a matriarchy, but as men yall can rise up and take it back, but some of yall just want to complain about it and aren't taking actions to band together with other bm to make it happen.
And if brehs really want the whole community behind them, giving them support, it does start with them supporting their women and their children as well. As the saying goes, behind every strong man is strong women lifting them up. And in the past BW were lifting BM up, but it's becoming less and less, because BW haven't seen returns. What I mean is that at the end of the day, as much shyt as WW talk about WM, they know who butters their bread-they know WM provide resources, jobs, safe communities, stability, etc. They know WM are always putting them on pedestals and making the rest of us consume content centered on how beautiful are WW--even when they can't stand their women, even when their women are on platforms going against them and targeting them. Wm will still throw everyone under the bus for their own women. The harsh reality is that in a lot of cases, BW are getting, jobs, finances, resources and help more from WM than from brehs. They *feel* as if they get more support from each other and the friendships and networks they've built than from brehs.
Meanwhile, marriage rate is low, Brehettes aren't able to practice to assortive mating like other groups:
https://www.brookings.edu/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/marriagble-men-release.pdf
Brehs have been putting their women down, getting upset when WM invest in us because they are unable to, saying we aren't desirable and no on wants us, sharing every other negative stereoytpe about us, while boosting up nonbw. Then they turn around and ask BW to support them--do you see the disconnect? When you look at the big picture, it almost makes sense that some brehettes have resorted to admiring wm--because WM are giving bw resources, jobs, etc--things that BM are not. BW want BM to do that for them. BW want BM to put them above other women, to be more loyal to them.
BW would probably stop going in on yall and being so hateful and angry if they saw more of that happening, if we're keeping it buck, because a lot of that hatred is disappointment, frustration, and anger. And I do think some of the points
@Lemons has made have been on on point about other groups not respecting BM. But I think doing the above things (helping police and maintain safe communities, building more schools, businesses, land and communities, getting married and/or at least being more active in your children's lives, putting your own women above there's, etc) would earn more respect from brehettes and from other groups.
Of course this is just my opinions based on the conversations I've had with other BW.
A. Who the hell are you? 
