Is society promoting Black Women and leaving Black Men behind?

[El Bombi]

I'm glad you posted this.
So with these IR unions betwen Black Men and other races of women...why is that not represented in the media if it reflects reality?


Why is the media bombarded with these images of Black Women with White Men if that's the case?
:patrice;

Simply put, White Men and men of other races do not like seeing us with their women.
But they do like seeing themselves in dominant positions with Black women.


Because if they aren't dominant over you...they can't coexist with you.

These women are also over represented in politics as well. These political parties are going out of their way to get these black women that are married to white men.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Thread is about some black women straying from black men and that tweet is about the same thing… And those black male activists can’t walk into the White House or the Supreme Court (which is most likely what the white dude is talking about) as easily as their female counterparts.




That tweet’s about black female activists like blm, dems, etc. Not black women in general. And if black women were getting proposed to like other women they’d date out just as much, if not more than anyone else. Black women went to court to make interracial marriage legal and are the main people making books, movies, and careers about it. Now If that’s what a lot of them want then whatever but let’s just tell it how it is

What are the stats on black female activists, because that wm gave examples of Kamala who is biracial, AOC who is not black, and then two full bw (one who is Somali). So we’re really using two full bw to make a point about black female activists overall? He made it seem as if most of them are with wm yet he couldn’t even provide more than two bw to back up his point. And one was married to a bm but left him for a wm. There have been Brehs that have done the same—cry about racism but marry and sleep with ww. Word to Bryon Allen.

In any case your second point is also not factual. I mean you can hypothesize about what bw would do all you want, but since it has not happened there is literally no evidence at all that this would be the case. Anyone can make a prediction or say I bet this would happen if xyz happened, but without actual evidence to support your claim and it actually happening, it’s merely just an opinion and that just doesn’t hold much weight or credibility in a argument, because it cannot be proven.

but some of you love to point that out because it’s something that can’t be argued. Meanwhile we have whole stats on Brehs IR marriage rate, providing evidence on which group is marrying out more. And y’all still focus on what bw would do if xyz happened smh.

Now if you want to say that it is your opinion that if more wm wanted bw, the marriage rate between bw and wm would be higher, that’s one thing. But we all got opinions. and as a bw who knows a lot of bw, my opinion is that there are already plenty of wm who express interest in bw all the damn time, but in general bw are not as interested in wm as they are in us and that’s even just for sex. In order for a marriage proposal to take place bw need to actually give wm a chance when they subtly ask us out on a date (the way wm often do which usually happens after they ask—“do you date white guys?” “Have you ever dated a white guy?) and up until very recently many bw were not open to dating wm because most were not attracted to wm enough to go there—and that’s the real reason the marriage rate is low between both groups. Now of course that is my opinion. You have yours. Neither of our opinions mean much.

My opinion is also that yes the tides are changing and that the younger gen z are dating white boys at an increasing rate, and with the media doing its thing to promote it too, eventually I think the IR marriage rate will increase between bw and wm.

 

[Balla]

The answer as to why has been expressed multiple times in this thread and throughout others. A lot of Black men are not receptive to help. Who is going to keep trying to help someone that smacks your hand when you reach out?

Ya'll will sit and say no one understands, no one cares, no one I can reach out to, etc. While making no effort to find the support either. It's disheartening and frustrating at this point. Black women will take full advantage of help because it makes shyt easier, then turn around and try to make it easier for the next. How many more generations are you going to struggle before you change the mentality of the approach?

If you don't want to accept outside help, then yall need to turn to one another and create a network of support. It's not that people don't want to help, yall only want help on your own terms, well then create the fukking terms so you can advance. Don't be mad at the group that opted for help and showing improvement because that's just how getting help works.

What do you mean bm aren’t receptive to getting help? Where are you basing this off of?

 

[Balla]

up until very recently many bw were not open to dating wm because most were not attracted to wm enough to go there—and that’s the real reason the marriage rate is low between both groups. Now of course that is my opinion. You have yours. Neither of our opinions mean much.

My opinion is also that yes the tides are changing and that the younger gen z are dating white boys at an increasing rate, and with the media doing its thing to promote it too, eventually I think the IR marriage rate will increase between bw and wm.

Where are you getting this information from for that being the reason their marriage rate is low? Majority of bw I’ve met who date out always approached non bm and were very aggressive as well.

 

[bl2k8]

You got Politicians tweeting shyt like this. You know what time it is. a vote against Biden means you hate black women

 

[Burned Verses]

What are the stats on black female activists, because that wm gave examples of Kamala who is biracial, AOC who is not black, and then two full bw (one who is Somali). So we’re really using two full bw to make a point about black female activists overall? He made it seem as if most of them are with wm yet he couldn’t even provide more than two bw to back up his point. And one was married to a bm but left him for a wm. There have been Brehs that have done the same—cry about racism but marry and sleep with ww. Word to Bryon Allen.

In any case your second point is also not factual. I mean you can hypothesize about what bw would do all you want, but since it has not happened there is literally no evidence at all that this would be the case. Anyone can make a prediction or say I bet this would happen if xyz happened, but without actual evidence to support your claim and it actually happening, it’s merely just an opinion and that just doesn’t hold much weight or credibility in a argument, because it cannot be proven.

but some of you love to point that out because it’s something that can’t be argued. Meanwhile we have whole stats on Brehs IR marriage rate, providing evidence on which group is marrying out more. And y’all still focus on what bw would do if xyz happened smh.

Now if you want to say that it is your opinion that if more wm wanted bw, the marriage rate between bw and wm would be higher, that’s one thing. But we all got opinions. and as a bw who knows a lot of bw, my opinion is that there are already plenty of wm who express interest in bw all the damn time, but in general bw are not as interested in wm as they are in us and that’s even just for sex. In order for a marriage proposal to take place bw need to actually give wm a chance when they subtly ask us out on a date (the way wm often do which usually happens after they ask—“do you date white guys?” “Have you ever dated a white guy?) and up until very recently many bw were not open to dating wm because most were not attracted to wm enough to go there—and that’s the real reason the marriage rate is low between both groups. Now of course that is my opinion. You have yours. Neither of our opinions mean much.

My opinion is also that yes the tides are changing and that the younger gen z are dating white boys at an increasing rate, and with the media doing its thing to promote it too, eventually I think the IR marriage rate will increase between bw and wm.

Yea I think his examples weren't that good but we can look at blm leaders or the recent nominees for scotus, iirc most of them had white spouses. We can even go back and look at women like maya angelou and eartha kitt.

And for my 2nd point and I'm not just pulling stuff out of thin air. Black women are the main consumers & creators of interracial content on all platforms, just type in 'interracial' and you'll see a commonality. There are even black love pages featuring bwwm couples. Plus relationships, attraction, etc. aren't solely defined by marriage.

 

[FeverPitch2]

No, you're not imagining things.
This is one of the oldest tricks in the book when it comes to sowing division in the Black community.
There was even an episode of Good Times about it where James goes for a job.
It's a good job, but somehow the employers run into Florida. They decide to offer her the job instead because it checks two minority boxes rather then one.
The gag is that "Well, Black women are thriving, what's wrong with Black men?"
Black women eat that shyt up with a spoon. They love the "Black women are the most educated blah blah".
In the meantime, they intentionally hire Black women over Black men. If hired, they give Black men hell in corporate America.
All the time, actively disenfranchising us, throwing brehs in jail in alarming rate, if not outright murdering us or attempting to do so.
The ultimate aim of this gaslighting is divide and conquer, which is what systematic racism has always done.
This is such an old tactic, you'd think both brehs and brehettes would stop falling for it.

 

[Balla]

No, you're not imagining things.
This is one of the oldest tricks in the book when it comes to sowing division in the Black community.
There was even an episode of Good Times about it where James goes for a job.
It's a good job, but somehow the employers run into Florida. They decide to offer her the job instead because it checks two minority boxes rather then one.
The gag is that "Well, Black women are thriving, what's wrong with Black men?"
Black women eat that shyt up with a spoon. They love the "Black women are the most educated blah blah".
In the meantime, they intentionally hire Black women over Black men. If hired, they give Black men hell in corporate America.
All the time, actively disenfranchising us, throwing brehs in jail in alarming rate, if not outright murdering us or attempting to do so.
The ultimate aim of this gaslighting is divide and conquer, which is what systematic racism has always done.
This is such an old tactic, you'd think both brehs and brehettes would stop falling for it.

The thing is, do bw really want to stop falling for it? Wouldn’t they voice out against it if they really didn’t like the message being put out there?

 

[bubba scotch]

Why do ya'll give media entertainment so much prominence and value in your life?

It's disturbing how media entertainment is a guide or oracle for so many people.

shyt sad. I understand wanting representation in media but we have to stop letting Hollywood be our source of validation.

 

[FeverPitch2]

The thing is, do bw really want to stop falling for it? Wouldn’t they voice out against it if they really didn’t like the message being put out there?

What woman, of any race, would frown on the message that they're morally and intellectually superior to men?

 

[Balla]

What woman, of any race, would frown on the message that they're morally and intellectually superior to men?

That’s what I’m trying to say. They enjoy the message.

 

[How Sway?]

Knock it off

U know damn well the tides are changing and women are having the spotlight

Some of them just happen to be black

Also black men have always had to move different in this society

I'm calling it like I see it

Black women have made it a point to promote "black women first " and network and support each other politically and economically, thus leading to more representation in politics, entertainment, education, etc.

Yeah it's some bullshyt but that's what time they're on.

I will say this, part of the reason they've been able to facilitate this is due to white men feeling more comfortable dealing with black women vs Black men( with the exception of gays or c00ns or some go along get along types. Basicallypeople who are not a threat to the status quo).

However it's not simply just due to just the tide changing breh.
Like I said BW have been making it a point to create support networks on all levels of the economy which is something black men just haven't done on a large scale, and understandably so due to various reasons.

I could go ON and on about this topic, but I'll just leave it at that.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Where are you getting this information from for that being the reason their marriage rate is low? Majority of bw I’ve met who date out always approached non bm and were very aggressive as well.

The same place y’all got the information you have about the reason y’all think it’s low. As in its my opinion because there is no report, stats or studies out there exploring the reason on why the marriage rate between bw and wm is low. He gave his opinion. I gave mine.

I’m also a bw, who knows plenty of bw, and what’s being said when bm are not around. Women talk differently when we are around each other. Now, yes I do believe the tides are changing for the younger group but it is my opinion that overall as a collective most brehettes want Brehs.

As for the bolded, just because that’s your experience doesn’t mean that’s what’s happening everywhere and without there being verified evidence that says outright that many bw are aggressively approaching wm, then really all I can do is take what you said into account and then share my own experiences, which are: Bw rarely approach anyone.

They expect for the men to do the approaching. They are not like ww who will go up to a Breh and just straight up tell him he’s hot and strike up a conversation. Bw will be standing there waiting on a guy to notice her and approach not the other way around. So you mean to tell me suddenly when it comes to corny white boys bw have the balls to aggressively approach? I have not seen bw approaching wm but again this is my experience being out with other bw as a bw. I know you’ve had different experiences.


But say it’s true and that really is happening everywhere, Brehs do it too with nonbw. And look at the end of the day I don’t know if y’all have the room to talk anyway, Because like I said, look at the IR marriage rate.

now we can speculate on why it’s low for bw/wm (because again we don’t know, all we have are our own differing opinions) but one thing we can’t speculate about is who is marrying more whites and ain’t brehettes. It’s Brehs.

 

[How Sway?]

Black men are too focussed on bs due to a lack if proper guidance from black male role models.

Basically, the only way you gonna stop rhis is to raise your kids right black men.

Bm are focused on bs bc black men are victims of psychological warfare and social engineering. The powers that be wanted it this way.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Yea I think his examples weren't that good but we can look at blm leaders or the recent nominees for scotus, iirc most of them had white spouses. We can even go back and look at women like maya angelou and eartha kitt.

And for my 2nd point and I'm not just pulling stuff out of thin air. Black women are the main consumers & creators of interracial content on all platforms, just type in 'interracial' and you'll see a commonality. There are even black love pages featuring bwwm couples. Plus relationships, attraction, etc. aren't solely defined by marriage.

Okay with the first point I can see that point a bit more. I don’t get it either but I do think it’s overcompensation most likely and makes them look stupid. (The women who do this).

as for the second point, I do agree that there is a vocal group of bw who make IR content (word to shonda grimes) and who consume it, but they are few in the grand scheme of things (when you consider that the majority of bw are not making IR content, nor are they dating out, most people date their own race, bw are not excluded, that’s why many bw get angry when they see bm with ww, and I suspect that’s why bm get salty when they find out a woman is a wench).

the few who are very vocal do not represent the majority of bw.