Is society promoting Black Women and leaving Black Men behind?

[The_Truth]

Yeah, they just want the black man to be a mindless drone sperm donor and prison industrial complex slaves, which many boys become due to being brought up by these new age liberal single mother households (which is why they're set up to be the heads of the households to be begin with).

The powers that be only want the government, the school system, television, and the woman (who is a follower of whoever is in power by the nature), to instruct and raise the children. Not black men. Especially not black men who are rulership-minded.

The American black community is the only community on Earth where the woman is above her male counterpart and has authority over the household and the children via the government's blessing and say so (again by design).

No successful nation of people is led by the woman. You won't find one.

Stop this LIE that black women and the government are forcing black men out of their kid's lives. Too many ni66as are just irresponsible. They know how to make babies but they don't know how to make families. This ain't got shyt to do with "the powers that be". This is a big reason why black men aren't respected. Blaming everybody else for the their own dumb decisions.

 

[Ohene]

I was able to confirm my suspicions when i started seeing bullshyt like this single out only black women

divide and conquer

One Million Black Women

It’s actually pretty sad and disappointing how they do this shyt to us . Had to quote myself for emphasis

 

[FeverPitch2]

I’ve been saying that BM have to create their own/build more and have more pull in society, so they don’t have to ask/be as dependent on another group of men for opportunities.

When you say this, how do you envision this happening?
BTW, props for entering this convo.

 

[FeverPitch2]

It’s not up to black women to have to pull stragglers up. Keeping it 100% a lot of brehs need to grow up. This kind of mindset is not it. There’s no reason we can’t look out for each other as black men and pull each other up.

this isn’t a divestor or wench discussion because I don’t even count them as black anymore, they’re just c00ns who can go be with the people they obviously want to be like.

This is bullshyt.

 

[CW_1991]

Stop this LIE that black women and the government are forcing black men out of their kid's lives. Too many ni66as are just irresponsible. They know how to make babies but they don't know how to make families. This ain't got shyt to do with "the powers that be". This is a big reason why black men aren't respected. Blaming everybody else for the their own dumb decisions.

Sure fam, there aren't black women out here who use men for their sperm and then get rid of them (due to boredom, the new guy, or incompatibility) and then run them through the white man's court system for child support. The only thing you said that I agree with is the fact that men should be more careful about falling into the trap and taking the proper time to vet the women in question beforehand.

The very same men that you're talking about that don't want to step up and be responsible fathers are a lot of times products of single mother households and don't know nothing about fatherhood.

As for the government not intentionally breaking up black families...

 

[FeverPitch2]

Stop paying attention to “society”……..shyt is smoke and mirrors

I really wish yall would stop saying this silly shyt because yall think it sounds good.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Stop it breh. You grew up on cosby and fresh prince . They pushed the black family nucleus and yet marriage rates dropped.

Good point.

 

[StretfordRed]

ADOS boys in here still crying over women getting more of a push than men? It's quite embarrassing TBH that all you seem to do is cry at other people "leaving you behind"

Across the US there are tonnes of organisations that are embracing black ness and men and women are taking up that olive branch. But as I said before, it is statistically black women who are the bottom of the pole for most stats when being compared to their gender and racial peers. That is why women are being specifically pushed in today's society.

Music, technology, sports, certain fields of education all = black women dead last in participation and I really struggle to see why TLR brehs are struggling to understand that?

Maybe because you're struggling in your own life and career?

 

[EndGame]

ADOS boys in here still crying over women getting more of a push than men? It's quite embarrassing TBH that all you seem to do is cry at other people "leaving you behind"

Across the US there are tonnes of organisations that are embracing black ness and men and women are taking up that olive branch. But as I said before, it is statistically black women who are the bottom of the pole for most stats when being compared to their gender and racial peers. That is why women are being specifically pushed in today's society.

Music, technology, sports, certain fields of education all = black women dead last in participation and I really struggle to see why TLR brehs are struggling to understand that?

Maybe because you're struggling in your own life and career?

OP is Nigerian, fakkit.

 

[The_Truth]

Sure fam, there aren't black women out here who use men for their sperm and then get rid of them (due to boredom, the new guy, or incompatibility) and then run them through the white man's court system for child support. The only thing you said that I agree with is the fact that men should be more careful about falling into the trap and taking the proper time to vet the women in question beforehand.

The very same men that you're talking about that don't want to step up and be responsible fathers are a lot of times products of single mother households and don't know nothing about fatherhood.

As for the government not intentionally breaking up black families...

You described maybe 5% of women who become single mothers. And I think even 5% is too generous. Majority of single mothers didn't plan that shyt. They're just making the best with what they have. Most of them take their baby daddy to child support court because that's the ONLY way to get them to support their child. They had to be FORCED to help provide for their own flesh and blood. I have no sympathy for ni66as crying about taking care of their own kids. This is what makes black men look weak.

And I still don't understand how the government forced these ni66as to have unprotected sex.

 

[Unknown Poster]

ADOS boys in here still crying over women getting more of a push than men? It's quite embarrassing TBH that all you seem to do is cry at other people "leaving you behind"

Across the US there are tonnes of organisations that are embracing black ness and men and women are taking up that olive branch. But as I said before, it is statistically black women who are the bottom of the pole for most stats when being compared to their gender and racial peers. That is why women are being specifically pushed in today's society.

Music, technology, sports, certain fields of education all = black women dead last in participation and I really struggle to see why TLR brehs are struggling to understand that?

Maybe because you're struggling in your own life and career?

Im Nigerian.

And isn't this a discussion board?

I already stated at the beginning of the thread that I support Black Women. I was just wondering if anybody was noticing what I was noticing.

I'm living gucci thank you very much.

How do we even elevate ourselves if we cant recognize whats wrong and work to improve it?

I aint on that gender divide nonsense. I want us all to win deadass.

 

[Wild self]

Facts, this is all over tv nowadays. Case in point, I'm a fan of the show Ozark like everyone else I guess but this black female FBI agent -where's the father to her kid at? And of course the one black male FBI agent was gay

Yep. Its gotten so obvious, that even white people are saying "Where are the heterosexual black men at?"

When you reach that point, those tropes are played out and the agenda overplayed their hand. Its time to make TV reflect real life again.

 

[Wild self]

They don't want to understand this breh. No group has its men just 'pull themselves up etc.' All strong groups have the whole community get behind raising their men and making sure they are strong for community's sake. This 'Black men need to save themselves, Black women are rocking' shyt is ignoring the fact that the same forces that 'help' BW will scorn BM. I have seen it all the time. BW aren't necessarily more receptive to help, they get offered more help since they are seen as less threatening.

People really want to argue that there aren't enough BM to take advantage of programs, scholarships, etc. People also want to ignore how White men and men in Europe are seeing their educational attainment crash versus their own women. But society will put a safety net out for WM having harder times. We don't get shyt.

Yep. When black men were not going to college, no one said shyt. Now, when Generation Z white dudes skipping post-HS education, it becomes a national problem.

The workforce is now determined to keep INDENTURED SERVITUDE on the hierarchy of white men >women of any race > black men and want it that way, permanently so that no one challenges the status quo.

 

[Wild self]

It's known that you can get better social media reach and get your product/ad amplified if you get black women on your side. It's seen in the data, that simple. Black women tend to rally and shyt that appeals/panders to them. They also low key run social media, at least Twitter, from a popular narrative standpoint. Black men not so much.

Like Tariq Nasheed. He gotten mad black women that likes his superficial lifestyle and jokes of anything not of substance. Only recently, Kevin Samuels began challenging that and not gotten a ton of black men supporting him.

 

[Lemons]

Black women are out here rallying together, bonding, forming social groups and most importantly getting their image, likeness and perspective RESPECTED because they demand it. That’s why you are seeing a change. Black men have the worst reputation and apparently do nothing to combat that as a group. That’s on y’all to figure out.

Historically, black men have never been respected as a group but at least their women respected them and catered to them. Not anymore. Black women are tired of being mules and publicly humiliated by those very same men and have chosen to move on together to greener pastures. Blame yourselves for that.

Stop crying about where you are at in life and think about why no one respects you and how you can change that. Firstly, stop making excuses and blaming everyone for your plight. No one respects pitiful men. Advocate for strong SMART black male leaders who do more than sit behind and desk and talk all day on a podcast. Surely you can find decent black men whose lifestyle is admirable to be the face of a movement? And no not rappers and athletes, actually academically trained black men who aren’t sellouts and live for the people.

The truth is black women have always been the glue to the black community. What you’re witnessing is the glue moving on and leaving y’all to pick up the pieces. That’s why y’all feel the way you do: hopeless, left behind, confused, betrayed, emasculated etc. Instead of moving WITH black women, many of you focus on combating them—but where does that get you? Exactly where you are today: by yourself with no one at all caring about you or your representation as a people.

The positive note is that it is not too late to turn things around. Good luck.