I heard this before and I take it to mean not jumping into another relationship before ending the other. Its a belief that the relationship is over if they going through a divorce and they are just legally still tied. During that time of separation tho you may want to have companionship, go on dates, get some ass/dikk and nikkas aint waiting till the courts set them free
Not always, look at how many people file for divorce then reconcile;Kobe Bryant is a well known example. I can see some poor soul waiting for the divorce to be final so they can be together to only get that Dear John action because he/she decided to work on his/her marriage.Who would want to be on the receiving end of that heartbreak?