Is it better to meet women before success or after?

[Bilz]

I don't think money truly changes people, it just changes their opportunities. The guys that fall victim to gold diggers are often ones who knowingly used their finances to attract a woman they knew was out of their league physically.

 

[thewiz]

Good question....but how would you get these pawgs/paags then?

Stop.

 

[KingMalik]

80K is "making it" now?

Carry on.

Let me hold a dollar then

The average African American has $5 net worth lmao. Having $80,000 in the bank is definitely a good start. You wilding right now. Seriously though, let me hold a couple racks...

 

[Yup]

Stop.

I cant joke?

 

[KravenMorehead™]

On everything, i made the same thread with a more "mort from family guy"-ish thread title


http://www.thecoli.com/threads/as-a...-permanent-relationship-or-vice-versa.281201/

 

[Kid McNamara]

Let me hold a dollar then

The average African American has $5 net worth lmao. Having $80,000 in the bank is definitely a good start. You wilding right now. Seriously though, let me hold a couple racks...

That may be true, doesn't negate what I said.

Obviously we have different concepts of "making it."

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Before, it increases the chances of a woman liking you for your actual qualities and not just for materialistic reasons. That's why I'm not into that advice about getting established first and then having women come later.

 

[Starski]

Before...however the dating pool becomes larger after you make it

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Let me hold a dollar then

The average African American has $5 net worth lmao. Having $80,000 in the bank is definitely a good start. You wilding right now. Seriously though, let me hold a couple racks...

$$$$$

 

[Bless't]

If you had a 4 bedroom house, whip, prosperous career, $80K in the bank and an immaculate hairline when you met her, how can you ever know that she'd still be around if things got rocky for you. How would you know It's easy to say for richer or poorer if you were on the serious comeup when yall met

No lady would know how much I'm worth until it gets real for real.

I'm a somewhat private dude. Actions speak louder than words.

 

[KingMalik]

That may be true, doesn't negate what I said.

Obviously we have different concepts of "making it."

No, we have the same concept

But you gotta crawl before you fly.

You further ahead than me right now. Congrats.

 

[Yup]

In all seriousness...the pool gets bigger perhaps better after a man is established. That being said, many relationships have been destroyed after that pool has widened. There is no guarantee that being there for someone before he makes it will secure you a position by his side. Men are too motivated by sex and visuals.

I think its better for a woman to meet a man that already has something going for him already....that has a lot of choice but picks you above all of them. This applies to women also.

This is my female perspective

 

[Ahsha]

Always before. It would be easier to tell who is really down for you.

 

[Yup]

Always before. It would be easier to tell who is really down for you.

Not necessarily.

 

[Will Ross]

The only way to tell if a woman is really down for you is too fall off and see if she stays with you.