Is it a sucker who accepts his wife doesnt have his surname or times have changed :

[DapMeUp!]

Women get every advantage in marriage.

At least let us have this one thing.

Imagine her divorcing your ass, taking half your shyt and she didn't even take your last name in the first place

 

[levitate]

Times have changed.

My wife didn’t “take” my last name. We both thought logically about it and said...why?

 

[BlackDiBiase]

Who gives a fukk. Goddamn you nikkas is obsessed with these goofy “rules” nikkas came up with 1000 years ago. Worried about what others think.

i hear you but its deeper than rap.

you would think as a people we have moved forward but certain names indicate regions and etc and the world is still bugging out.

the paperbull is still segregationalist

 

[Pseudonym]

a lil off topic, I had a school loan taken off my credit report after I changed my name, they called and I told them they had the wrong person.

Not proud of it, but it worked.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

Times have changed.

My wife didn’t “take” my last name. We both thought logically about it and said...why?

i hear you, you're fortunate enough to be married full stop

 

[Uchiha God]

a lil off topic, I had a school loan taken off my credit report after I changed my name, they called and I told them they had the wrong person.

Not proud of it, but it worked.

I ain’t mad at this

 

[Action Mike]

Pay for the ring, wedding, shelter, bills, vacation, kids music lessons plus more.

All traditional demands from a "successful" modern woman thats probably a HR admin.....

....and she won't take your last name breh?

 

[levitate]

Maybe I would have cared more if I didn’t have a colonized last name.

My wife has a colonized last name too (different country, though).

So Im like trade one colonized last name for another? Nah, I’m good.

 

[levitate]

a lil off topic, I had a school loan taken off my credit report after I changed my name, they called and I told them they had the wrong person.

Not proud of it, but it worked.

I’m telling.

 

[number21]

Yeah. The woman's "last name" is her father's unless that nikka was a simp as well. So, her not taking your name means she ain't yours and that you're playing a dangerous that will end up as an L for you.

 

[Wardo]

The first thing i see in the morning is this stupid ass question. We not married unless you take my name.

 

[Pseudonym]

I’m telling.

snitch

 

[number21]

Who gives a fukk. Goddamn you nikkas is obsessed with these goofy “rules” nikkas came up with 1000 years ago. Worried about what others think.

And I bet you be in other threads talking about how black people must come together and do better.

Just a heads up, to do something like that you need set and have "goofy rules" like this to accomplish that. But you're too much of a simpleton to understand that.

 

[CashmereThoughts]

And I bet you be in other threads talking about how black people must come together and do better.

Just a heads up, to do something like that you need set and have "goofy rules" like this to accomplish that. But you're too much of a simpleton to understand that.

I dont think the advancement of my people is dependent on last name traditions. its millions of people who followed that tradition and their families are a failure and there are those who didnt who raise strong black families.

 

[KingFreeman]

Speaking from personal observation because I know somebody is going to get emotional and quote me with some bs.

A woman who doesnt want to to take a man's last name thinks of dude as beta full stop. For all the disadvantages of marriage presented on here, its makes even less sense to go through with it and then pick and choose the parts. She wants to keep her name, but then wants every other benefit of marriage? Marriage is 'until death do us part.' But she doesnt want to fully commit? Why get married?

Bringing kids into it. Would an actual man let his kids have hyphenated names? Or her name? As a man you have to draw lines with all things in life that you dont agree with because if a woman can browbeat you into allowing the name deal, minus well start planning for that divorce.