Exactly....the veil is a perfect example. Women are obliged to dress modestly because of the weakness of MEN, not to burden women.
In Islam a woman has the right to divorce her husband if he isn't satisfying her sexually....this is according to Sharia....what other religion grants women rights like that? Especially 1400 years ago?
The stuff about divorce and equal sexual satisfaction is progressive and commendable, but the modesty stuff is patriarchal to me for 2 connected reasons:
1. If the source of the problem is the man, then why is the onus on the woman to modify her behavior accordingly? Why doesn't the source of the problem have to change himself? You have some Conservative social views, and I've often heard you saying that hood people should take personal responsibility and change their own behavior for the best rather than having other people accomodate them/give them a pass and thus apologize for their tendencies. In this case, though, it seems to me like you're accepting the opposite conclusion- the man, despite being the problem, doesn't have to act to change. The women around him do, to accomodate his behavior. This leads me right into point 2:
2. Since the rapist tendencies of men are seen as natural, the onus is thus off the rapist whenever a rape occurs, since it's simply a natural tendency and not something that can be easily overcome, and thus women become burdened with the sole agency to determine whether or not a rape can occur, and also a disproportionate amount of the blame when a rape happens. I think you see this reflected in the Sharia laws around rape, which are, in my opinion, biased against the woman, since the standard of proof she needs to prove guilt are much higher than what the rapist has to do in order to get off freely.