Fixed for you. African societies didn't operate that way before they came into contact with Europeans. This is why I asked the question about who in here is Black and who isn't, because those who are are subscribing to a lot of European principles that didn't exist in society until they were brought to the Americas in chains and Africa colonized.
I also don't think Black men would like the implications of a natural order based on history either
Basically your posts give the impression that every man is deep down angry and/or threatened by the idea that a woman has the same rights as him. I see no reason to believe this, not even historically. Because in those same (Euro) societies of old, the majority of men were oppressed by a tiny amount of men with more power and resources than them as well.
Finally, as far as your example that a man will beat a woman who doesn't agree with him, the family issue still stands against this. If men would not like to see other men hurt the women in their family, why would we then assume they would resort and feel compelled to hurt them themselves? You seem to have a very violent view of male/female relations.