Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

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theres a reason why fancy restaurants arent in low income areas, because the main demographic of low income areas doesn't have the money or acquired taste to appreciate the 50 dollar steak, or the expensive bottle of wine on the menu.

And that's how it is in the black community, the mcdonalds and chow yun fat 2 dollar specials are winning while the exquisite restaurants are closing up shop and going elsewhere
And when they go elsewhere they leave b*stards in their wake AND have the highest divorce rates of any pairing. :dead: It's clear who the problem is.
 

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Ok so then why weren't out of wedlock rates and dead beat fathers so high 50 years ago? Birth control wasn't even as advanced 50 years ago. Biology doesn't change that fast over 50 years. Why were more black women marrying and having kids with worthy black men? Didn't they have the biological imperative to have kids back then too?
You literally just answered your own question using my logic to do so. The amount of quality black males was MUCH higher then, so when a woman was dealing with a black man she wasn't likely to end up with a deadbeat. That is NOT the case now.
 

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again proof?
your just talking out of your ass
So if someone doesn't provide proof they're talking out of their ass? *looks through thread for your proof finds none* So you're talking out of your ass? The divorce rates between black males and white women are the highest of any pairing at 75% with the white women initiating 95% of the divorces. Geesh you know you've got to be terrible husband material when someone normally files for divorce at a rate of 75%, but it jumps to 95% when marrying you.
 

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So if someone doesn't provide proof they're talking out of their ass? *looks through thread for your proof finds none* So you're talking out of your ass? The divorce rates between black males and white women are the highest of any pairing at 75% with the white women initiating 95% of the divorces.

so if white women are initiating 95% of divorces, then why are black men getting the blame when they arent leaving the marriages but the women are
:jbhmm:

because according to you black males are abandoning responsibility and making their kids fatherless but now its white women who are leaving black male/white women marriages:patrice:
 

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You literally just answered your own question using my logic to do so. The amount of quality black males was MUCH higher then, so when a woman was dealing with a black man she wasn't likely to end up with a deadbeat. That is NOT the case now.

She wasn't likely to have a kid out of wedlock. Why is that? Also there were worthless black men that existed back then also, so why didn't those women procreate with those men but instead chose to marry and procreate with the good black men?

Also why were the quality of black men so good back then? Isn't it because a lot of black women were CHOOSING good black men instead of worthless black men. This caused there to be a patriarchy and a good father figure in the child's life, which produced good black men. Then when black women started thinking they could raise a child on their own after they procreated with a worthless man,or kicked a good father out the way children didn't have a father figure.
 

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so if white women are initiating 95% of divorces, then why are black men getting the blame when they arent leaving the marriages but the women are
:jbhmm:

because according to you black males are abandoning responsibility and making their kids fatherless but now its white women who are leaving black male/white women marriages:patrice:
You really are dense to think that a woman leaving a marriage means that she is the cause of the end of the marriage. You say that the fine upscale restaurants are moving to where they can be appreciated, but the clients in the new area realize after sampling these "cast out" restaurants that they are not up to par and they never have been. Black men can't even make it work with their precious Beckies, and you still want to try to blame it on black women? :dead:
 

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She wasn't likely to have a kid out of wedlock. Why is that? Also there were worthless black men that existed back then also, so why didn't those women procreate with those men but instead chose to marry and procreate with the good black men?

Also why were the quality of black men so good back then? Isn't it because a lot of black women were CHOOSING good black men instead of worthless black men. This caused there to be a patriarchy and a good father figure in the child's life, which produced good black men. Then when black women started thinking they could raise a child on their own after they procreated with a worthless man,or kicked a good father out the way children didn't have a father figure.
The last portion of your comment is nonsense, and the first portion can be answered once again using my logic. The good black males back them far outnumbered the deadbeats which is why black women didn't procreate with them. There were hardly any to procreate with. Today they make up a significant portion of the black male population. Let's also not paint that era as some kind of Black familial Utopia because that is not the case at all.
 

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The last portion of your comment is nonsense, and the first portion can be answered once again using my logic. The good black males back them far outnumbered the deadbeats which is why black women didn't procreate with them. There were hardly any to procreate with. Today they make up a significant portion of the black male population. Let's also not paint that era as some kind of Black familial Utopia because that is not the case at all.

There are good black men today that outnumber the dusty whack black men, but there black women choosing to mostly mess with them. On my college campus there are several worthless black men out there, BUT there is a good number of young black girls attracted to them. I was with a acquaintance the other day and some whiz khalifa looking dude sagging his pants walked by. She kept going on and on about how fine he is. I was looking her like :scust:.....................:skip: I'm not saying that you can automatically tell a mans nature by what he wears but everything about him screams red flag yet there are young ladies attracted to him. There are black men that have kids by different black women, because black women allow it.


Look at this inmate. Four prison guards (black women) got pregnant by him. They got pregnant by a man in prison. They lost their income to a man in prison. Now what is their excuse?

Black Guerilla Family Leader Tavon White Knocked Up Four Prison Guards With Five Kids While Incarcerated

Inmate at center of Baltimore jail scandal gets 12 years
 

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You really are dense to think that a woman leaving a marriage means that she is the cause of the end of the marriage. You say that the fine upscale restaurants are moving to where they can be appreciated, but the clients in the new area realize after sampling these "cast out" restaurants that they are not up to par and they never have been. Black men can't even make it work with their precious Beckies, and you still want to try to blame it on black women? :dead:

majority of women who fle for divorce is because they "fell out of love" or there is someone else.
 

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There are good black men today that outnumber the dusty whack black men, but there black women choosing to mostly mess with them. On my college campus there are several worthless black men out there, BUT there is a good number of young black girls attracted to them. I was with a acquaintance the other day and some whiz khalifa looking dude sagging his pants walked by. She kept going on and on about how fine he is. I was looking her like :scust:.....................:skip: I'm not saying that you can automatically tell a mans nature by what he wears but everything about him screams red flag yet there are young ladies attracted to him. There are black men that have kids by different black women, because black women allow it.


Look at this inmate. Four prison guards (black women) got pregnant by him. They got pregnant by a man in prison. They lost their income to a man in prison. Now what is their excuse?

Black Guerilla Family Leader Tavon White Knocked Up Four Prison Guards With Five Kids While Incarcerated

Inmate at center of Baltimore jail scandal gets 12 years

*40% of all BW are single mothers; only 20% of BM are single fathers
*BW are the group of women with the highest HIV/AIDS rates
*48% of BW have herpes
*50% have STDs
*80% are overweight
*60% of black mothers have kids by 2+ men
*BW abort 1876 babies DAILY

:noneofmybusinesstho:
 

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There are good black men today that outnumber the dusty whack black men, but there black women choosing to mostly mess with them. On my college campus there are several worthless black men out there, BUT there is a good number of young black girls attracted to them. I was with a acquaintance the other day and some whiz khalifa looking dude sagging his pants walked by. She kept going on and on about how fine he is. I was looking her like :scust:.....................:skip: I'm not saying that you can automatically tell a mans nature by what he wears but everything about him screams red flag yet there are young ladies attracted to him. There are black men that have kids by different black women, because black women allow it.


Look at this inmate. Four prison guards (black women) got pregnant by him. They got pregnant by a man in prison. They lost their income to a man in prison. Now what is their excuse?

Black Guerilla Family Leader Tavon White Knocked Up Four Prison Guards With Five Kids While Incarcerated

Inmate at center of Baltimore jail scandal gets 12 years

Let's see how she's going to spin this one.

Oh, yes. Their biological imperatives compelled them to have sex and get knocked up by a nikka in prison!

They had no choice in the matter. Their biological imperatives overruled everything! Right, @bcrusaderw ?
 
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