Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[agnosticlady]

You should ask the White, Latina, and Asian women the same question as they seem to have the same problem when procreating with black males, but not when procreating with their own race.

No I'm asking you. Why is that you and I can make the conscious decision not to get pregnant (you out of not wanting kids and me out of wanting kids in wedlock). Since you are so sure about there not being enough good black men why can't other black women follow the same path you and I follow when it comes to having kids? What is stopping them? If you and I can make proper decisions what is stopping them?

 

[bcrusaderw]

No I'm asking you. Why is that you and I can make the conscious decision not to get pregnant (you out of not wanting kids and me out of wanting kids in wedlock). Since you are so sure about there not being enough good black men why can't other black women follow the same path you and I follow when it comes to having kids? What is stopping them? If you and I can make proper decisions what is stopping them?

The biological imperative to have children. I find it adorable that you can skirt over the fatherless problem in mixed race children with black fathers. You can't pin that on black women, so you have nothing to say.

 

[MikelArteta]

The biological imperative to have children. I find it adorable that you can skirt over the fatherless problem in mixed race children with black fathers. You can't pin that on black women, so you have nothing to say.

how about you post a article that isnt written by a fake author

 

[bcrusaderw]

If you just want to be with a non black man just say it.

 

[bcrusaderw]

how about you post a article that isnt written by a fake author

I've provided evidence to my claims. If you'd like to refute it you can do the same, but you won't because my claims are correct.

 

[Elle Driver]

Youd think this" teeny portion" of the population would be valued like rare gems and not rejected lol.

Setting a bad example for up and coming black men who see aint shyt black men get rewarded.

What kind of women are yall going after?

 

[MikelArteta]

I've provided evidence to my claims. If you'd like to refute it you can do the same, but you won't because my claims are correct.

where?
you keep referencing a article written by an author that has no credence, has never written anythng else, is not backed by a school, a reputable firm NOTHING. Yet it continues to be gospel for your talking points

 

[Blackout]

What kind of women are yall going after?

Average women.

Men generally arent picky.

 

[mamba]

The biological imperative to have children. I find it adorable that you can skirt over the fatherless problem in mixed race children with black fathers. You can't pin that on black women, so you have nothing to say.

Biological imperative?

A man's biological imperative is to spread his seed all around and not be monogamous.

Since we don't have control over these biological imperatives, why are we even discussing so-called deadbeats? LOL!

If we can expect Black men to control their biological impulses, Black women should be able to do the same.

Trying to excuse the behavior of Black women using some biological imperative is weak as hell.

 

[MikelArteta]

What kind of women are yall going after?

i know you cant go against the wolfpack but aint sh*t black men eat better than good quality black men.

Every nikka in jail got a woman or two waiting for him, never sen a drug dealer or a gangster be in a puzzy drought,

the black community the only community where the lowest of the low are winning

 

[agnosticlady]

The biological imperative to have children.

Ok so then why weren't out of wedlock rates and dead beat fathers so high 50 years ago? Birth control wasn't even as advanced 50 years ago. Biology doesn't change that fast over 50 years. Why were more black women marrying and having kids with worthy black men? Didn't they have the biological imperative to have kids back then too?

 

[MikelArteta]

theres a reason why fancy restaurants arent in low income areas, because the main demographic of low income areas doesn't have the money or acquired taste to appreciate the 50 dollar steak, or the expensive bottle of wine on the menu.

And that's how it is in the black community, the mcdonalds and chow yun fat 2 dollar specials are winning while the exquisite restaurants are closing up shop and going elsewhere

 

[Elle Driver]

Average women.

Men generally arent picky.

I don't agree.

i know you cant go against the wolfpack but aint sh*t black men eat better than good quality black men.

Every nikka in jail got a woman or two waiting for him, never sen a drug dealer or a gangster be in a puzzy drought,

the black community the only community where the lowest of the low are winning

What kind of women are they?

 

[bcrusaderw]

Biological imperative?

A man's biological imperative is to spread his seed all around and not be monogamous.

Since we don't have control over these biological imperatives, why are we even discussing so-called deadbeats? LOL!

If we can expect Black men to control their biological impulses, Black women should be able to do the same.

Trying to excuse the behavior of Black women using some biological imperative is weak as hell.

It's clear that you can't hence why free and readily available sterilization is key.

where?
you keep referencing a article written by an author that has no credence, has never written anythng else, is not backed by a school, a reputable firm NOTHING. Yet it continues to be gospel for your talking points

Yet, you have offered NOTHING for yours.

 

[mamba]

Ok so then why weren't out of wedlock rates and dead beat fathers so high 50 years ago? Birth control wasn't even as advanced 50 years ago. Biology doesn't change that fast over 50 years. Why were more black women marrying and having kids with worthy black men? Didn't they have the biological imperative to have kids back then too?

Exactly! That bullshyt line of thinking she's trying to push carries no weight.