People are making inferences on what she's NOT saying. What would compel someone to continually hang out with a group of people who routinely make disparaging remarks in your presence? That desperate need for white validation. She could simply stop hanging with these people and seek out new friends. They're not going to magically stop being racist because you're crying on tiktok.
There's nothing you can do to curtail racism from strangers. We've all dealt with that. But within your own circle of friends.....seek new friends. Like the other poster said: It's difficult to muster the sympathy for someone who willingly puts themselves in that situation.
It's long been known that Asians, including a lot of Indian women, love white men. I have no doubt that she strongly desires a white man, but even so, nobody wants to hear random remarks from people when you're not addressing them. A lot of black men love latinas, but I'm sure nobody wants to hear random underhanded comments from random latinas, especially if you're the minority and they are the majority and you have to constantly be around them.
We only got to look at the old days when black men used to put dangerous chemicals in their hair to look like white men because their self esteem got beat down so much. Getting hammered with those disparaging remarks and behavior does something to one's self esteem. She is pretty much getting the 'black folks treatment' and learning quickly that she doesn't fit into the honorary white category like maybe an East Asian would