Phi, if I'm not mistaken, the sisterhood is nothing but, broad terminology for group think and clique mentality among certain women here...Essentially, the inability to call out fukkshyt from the same gender when you see it...Also the enabling and coodling of that very same fukkshyt coming from members of the same gender....For example, repping and dapping posts that disparage Black men..And that's no indictment on all of the women of the Coli because you can see most of the ladies do not partake in such behavior. That, and the fact that this same mentality can be seen in most of the men here as a lot of them will coodle some of the bs other male posters do, yet will be quick to call out the women for the same shyt. I know you for example, will call shyt out no matter the gender...I shouldn't have to salute anyone for some basic shyt like that, but I do salute you for being a mature adult.
It's funny tho, I've been called a simp because some of these nikkas feel as if I side with BW more than I do BM....shyt couldn't be further from the truth....Only reason it looks that way, is because, unlike a lot of these nikkas, I have no issues calling out whatever bs my peers (Black men) be on. I've been calling out the bs from both genders ever since I got here...I'm not about to turn blind eyes to and coodle grown ass adults on their shyt just because we share the same race and gender...I'm not.....If you're in the wrong...You're in the wrong...None of us here are children....We not cliqued up in gradeschool...So I shouldn't be seeing just a hand full of folks speak up against some of the blatant bs said on here...I shouldn't.
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the first problem is obvious. No one can complete you but yourself. That is understood with self acceptance, learning how to be alone, being comfortable with your own skin, learning how to love yourself, self security and etc. You have to respect other people's differences and them as an individual and they have to do the same thing for you. Gotta learn to accept and love someone for who they are and not what you want them to be. You can help them reach their full potential but don't try to alter them into something they are not. Folks try to look for their clones or twin not realizing that that there is only one them and some people you will click with or won't regardless if you are similar or different.
