HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Breh. No disrespect to you whatsoever because you perform yeoman's work in these threads, but uh, I'm from here and realize that fully.It's not about phenotype; it's a cultural thing. Even dark skinned Puerto Ricans was looked at as outsiders to ADOS in NYC, which is why these darker ricans hid their heritage to fit in
My point was that non NYers don't get to regulate who can say what based on phenotype, an argument made on every page of this thread.
Just thinking about it, I'm realizing for the first time that ALL my aunts on both sides, born in here to nc/sc parents, would look non ados to non nyers. So a non NYer would come here and feel it's appropriate to check them? Or my ls/ wavy cousins? That's wild.
@xoxodede You my sister and i love you. Let's discuss.