I blame women for that tbhLots of women still haven't realized this probably also due to the fact that being able to sleep with someone without wanting to be with them is a concept that's still hard to understand for many.
Well often times it goes: guy finds girl he want to have sex with = girl thinks "because he slept with me we have a connection and he wants to be with me" = guy says "uhm, I'm only here for the sex though" = girl thinks "but we have great sex which means we must be super compatible" yada yada
And the girl in the OP is basically saying sex /= a connection so sexual advances aren't flattering her.
Sex has never been emotional for a man but we have to be sexually attracted to you for us to begin to like you
The feelings may grow or they will not but women have to understand thats normally the natural process of men and don't think just because yall had sex then yall go together. Sex means nothing for men
Men don't have that same reverence of our bodies like women do and the cold truth is some women have nothing to offer but they bodies
That isnt a mans fault