I'm attracted to my co-worker and i have a fiance((UPDATE IN ORIGINAL))

[nalej]

OP we need pic with you and your screenname to verify this ain't ducktales.

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

So there is this guy, we work in an office setting together, we flirt.....hell we flirt alot sometimes with a sexual innuendo, he's fine as fucck, muscular build..younger than me & he turns me on just by the way he looks at me. I try to avoid him cause temptation is a bytch...... I think he's single but i am not sure.. He asked me to sit and have coffee with him on this saturday morning and i said yes.... But i have a Fiance............a live in Fiance at that, we have a child together... & my co-worker knows this.Jesus help me.... He looks like he can pick me up.... I have impure thoughts of him.......Am i a trollop?? We haven't fukked other than the thoughts in my mind.....i'm sure if i "keep getting coffee" with him things could get nasty but i feel like a cheater already....... Am i wrong to have these impure thoughts?? I need to back out on getting coffee with him but his fineness is stopping me. Go ahead call me out....call me tramp and a whore... This may help me....


What would you do if you were in this situation???

UPDATE:
Gottdam ya'll like the damn CIA around here. I'll come through with an update. Yes i'm f@cking him. I had to. The desire was way too strong. My fiance and I are no longer together. Not because of this incident but we had our issues prior to this and we decided to part ways at this point in our life. Once my ex and I parted ways it gave me the green light to do all my sinful pleasures with this young buck.

Now i can't say things have been spectacular , he isnt my man just a f@ck friend & we still work in the same building but i am in an office now and he is in a different department. The office hoes suspect something is going on with us and i'm trying to keep it hush hush. Mixing business with pleasure isn't a good idea and i've learned from this.

he has become too clingy & crazy like if he sees me talking to another man at work or pretty much anywhere he starts asking me the what & whys of why i'm talking to him. He says he is trying to get me pregnant. He is needy, he's delusional, he's jealous, he's clingy, but he is fine as hell and sex is amazing so he gets a pass. I don't want a relationship just a f@ck buddy. He wants more but he's young. I don't understand why he wants a relationship at his age. He's 23. I feel like he isn't ready mentally. He's successful and fine as hell. Go and explore , play around a bit yet he wants to be with one person and act like a husband and shyt.

So there you have it.

You sure this isn't a Tyler Perry Movie....?

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

 

[Buggsy Mogues]

I pray to God that this young dude gets you pregnant you worthless whore

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Shame!! Homewrecking slut. Nobody will ever love you. You finished out here, b. You'll be old and alone despite desperate desires for companionship.

You lost. Enjoy your Larry'd up future, swine

 

[ManxOfxThexYear]

U gettin a little too charged up holmes

She wanted some new dikk and ended her engagement... wats the problem, seems fair

What I want to know is where the engagement went wrong and what the deal is with the kid(s?)

Aint nothing wrong with that, just dont act like you innocent. Sorry breh, she left ol dude who held her down and her kid like that, she needed that stern talk.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

nikkas are about to start going HAM

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Shame!! Homewrecking slut. Nobody will ever love you. You finished out here, b. You'll be old and alone despite desperate desires for companionship.

This sounded pretty emotional breh.

 

[meth68]

OP's stories seem a little too crazy to be true. I'm not certain she is even a female. Ya'll just gonna believe her off of one random pic?

Agreed, and if true, in the end you went from

In a relationship with fiance with a kid
to single f*cking a random coworker

Are you enjoying that backwards move?

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

Why did you leave your fiancé @Goddess_Godiva

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

This sounded pretty emotional breh.

I lost a game of 2k, I'm a quarter of the way in on a pina colada wine cooler, fired up, lookin' for an e-fight

 

[KingTut]

he has become too clingy & crazy like if he sees me talking to another man at work or pretty much anywhere he starts asking me the what & whys of why i'm talking to him. He says he is trying to get me pregnant. He is needy, he's delusional, he's jealous, he's clingy, but he is fine as hell and sex is amazing so he gets a pass. I don't want a relationship just a f@ck buddy. He wants more but he's young. I don't understand why he wants a relationship at his age. He's 23. I feel like he isn't ready mentally. He's successful and fine as hell. Go and explore , play around a bit yet he wants to be with one person and act like a husband and shyt.

So there you have it.

This nikka gon kill you. You dun goof'd OP.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I lost a game of 2k, I'm a quarter of the way in on a pina colada wine cooler, fired up, lookin' for an e-fight

Bare your soul breh. Cant find the Carmelo "Yes Lawd" gif but thats my response

 

[Dusty Bake Activate]

OP's stories seem a little too crazy to be true. I'm not certain she is even a female. Ya'll just gonna believe her off of one random pic?

The one about dude's dikk getting hard when she hugged him and his wife spazzing out seemed a bit outrageous.

This one doesn't though. Lusting over a co-worker while engaged and then fukking him after the engagement is broke off? That not far-fetched. That shyt happens all the time. It just doesn't publicly admitted to often.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

You sure this isn't a Tyler Perry Movie....?

No cause the dark skinned characters didnt die of AIDS