As much as you want to believe it had nothing to do with it, it did. Let's be honest, once your already thinking about other people like that and have to LITERALLY stop yourself from giving up the p*ssy that easy, you already exited the relationship whether you want to admit or not. You found a way for you to comfort yourself with whats going on by justifying, it had nothing to do with it, we were separated and so it works out. BULLshyt. shyt happened because you thought the other side of the fence was much greener, but it really isn't because you wouldnt be masking the self doubt in your update.