I'm attracted to my co-worker and i have a fiance((UPDATE IN ORIGINAL))

ManxOfxThexYear

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Girl... there is no side penis that will come between me and my bank account...

Dude is going to get you fired with drama at the worst or smear your name limiting your opportunities at best...

Transfer quick, fast, and a hurry....

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So you won't give your girls man the puss who wants nothing serious, but you gone give this youngn trying to trap you the puss and give him a pass
















































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Uh, he's a married man who just so happens to be married to a friend of mine. Thats a boundry i dont cross. Thats foul.
 
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:banderas: @ that update

@Goddess_Godiva is delivering high quality top tier threads

baby don't pay attention to the rest of these dudes here...

you are singlehandedly revitalizing the Coli with these stories :salute:




see here's what a lot of guys fail to understand:

they come on here and complain about not being able to understand women and all of that...

but you are one of these women that we all seek to understand

we want to know what makes you tick :ld:


not in a bad way, but the reality is that you are the average woman in western society

what I like most about you is that you're keeping it real, and I can appreciate that
:salute: again

keep it real with us

you're the type of woman that I would want on my team... not as a b-u-d-d-y, but just as a woman that can give me insight into the mind of other women

you're the sexy woman that a breh should be "friends" with, but with no ulterior motive... :mjpls:

cause everybody knows that sexy women attract other sexy women...if a breh is friends with an attractive woman, the other women start to get curious about him and start trying to get to know him



so y'all leave @Goddess_Godiva alone :ufdup:




let her tell her stories


so we can all eat :steviej:

Thank you:obama: Those are kind words ( if you are not being sarcastic)
 

ManxOfxThexYear

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this

i dont know the facts about why you and your fiance broke up but this young buck played a part in it subconsciously i guarantee

This is what im saying, that was way to convenient that you two broke up and then all of a sudden oh look, im single, dikk! dikk! LUSCIOUS! dikk Everywhere!

You lost when you were already lusting after homeboy and you were engaged, you let your puss think for you
 

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But in case it isn't...

He is looking at you like that n shyt cause he wants to smash. You're willing to ruin your relationship over some young co-worker dyck that would make things uncomfortable at your place of work anyway? :dahell:



Smarten up Nas :heh:

he has become too clingy & crazy like if he sees me talking to another man at work or pretty much anywhere he starts asking me the what & whys of why i'm talking to him. He says he is trying to get me pregnant. He is needy, he's delusional, he's jealous, he's clingy,

Catch another L Nas. Nas lost :heh:
 

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So there is this guy, we work in an office setting together, we flirt.....hell we flirt alot sometimes with a sexual innuendo, he's fine as fucck,:noah: muscular build..younger than me & he turns me on just by the way he looks at me:takedat:. I try to avoid him cause temptation is a bytch.....:birdman:. I think he's single but i am not sure.. He asked me to sit and have coffee with him on this saturday morning and i said yes.... But i have a Fiance............a live in Fiance at that, we have a child together... & my co-worker knows this.Jesus help me.... He looks like he can pick me up...:whew:. I have impure thoughts of him.......Am i a trollop?? :lupe:We haven't fukked other than the thoughts in my mind.....i'm sure if i "keep getting coffee" with him things could get nasty but i feel like a cheater already....... Am i wrong to have these impure thoughts?? I need to back out on getting coffee with him but his fineness is stopping me. Go ahead call me out....call me tramp and a whore... This may help me....:wow:


What would you do if you were in this situation???

UPDATE:
Gottdam ya'll like the damn CIA around here. I'll come through with an update. Yes i'm f@cking him. I had to. The desire was way too strong. My fiance and I are no longer together. Not because of this incident but we had our issues prior to this and we decided to part ways at this point in our life. Once my ex and I parted ways it gave me the green light to do all my sinful pleasures with this young buck.

Now i can't say things have been spectacular , he isnt my man just a f@ck friend & we still work in the same building but i am in an office now and he is in a different department. The office hoes suspect something is going on with us and i'm trying to keep it hush hush. Mixing business with pleasure isn't a good idea and i've learned from this.


he has become too clingy & crazy like if he sees me talking to another man at work or pretty much anywhere he starts asking me the what & whys of why i'm talking to him. He says he is trying to get me pregnant. He is needy, he's delusional, he's jealous, he's clingy, but he is fine as hell and sex is amazing so he gets a pass. I don't want a relationship just a f@ck buddy.
He wants more but he's young. I don't understand why he wants a relationship at his age. He's 23. I feel like he isn't ready mentally. He's successful and fine as hell. Go and explore , play around a bit yet he wants to be with one person and act like a husband and shyt.

So there you have it.



:mindblown: really?












You remember that picture you posted right?





Even this young nikka understand he needs to lock you down.:damn:
 

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i love an Honest hoe :salute: good look on update
but on the real at least you know what you want and you not leading lil man on and letting him know your not serious with him(or are you:usure:) gotta love a female that keep it funky
 
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Thank you:obama: Those are kind words ( if you are not being sarcastic)




not being sarcastic...

I mean, I honestly want to know how women think out here

most women start acting siddity and like they have wings on their back, when they know good and well they got thot tendencies :rudy:


so I can appreciate a woman that's willing to let it all out and be honest... and the internet makes you anonymous, so all you gotta worry about is negative comments from dudes out here that prolly got a sidechick themselves :sas1:
 
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