I'm a Black guy that used to be married to an Indian woman AMA

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I think you'd still be together if she watched less tv and y'all did more activities independent of Indians.

Women look to television and many times use it as a barometer to how a relationship should be.

She probably got indoctrinated back into her culture and like you said, y'all became strangers.

She eating Indian food all the time

She only watch Indians on TV

She always seeing her Indian family

Your family ain't adopting her like that.

She only hang with Indians..... and you

You don't speak hindi

She's got 2 prize possessions. A wedding ring and a child which a, proves someone sees her as valuable and the latter shows she will always have someone to love her unconditionally. Someone she probably don't want growing up to "act black"

fukk are you there for at this point. Either as a provider or some form of pleasure if you two haven't created a culture as a family independent of outsiders.
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Another thing: Women are more tied to their culture than men are and coming from a very close knit culture like Indian it was going to be a struggle anyway.
 

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I'm currently dating a Indian chick, what good advice could you give me ?
Where did you meet?

i fukked with a Nepali chick for two years who did time in India at college and could speak three languages. She was a vegetarian and made some bomb egg curry and was insatiable in bed. In the end I just wasn't feeling it. :yeshrug:
Why? Was she watching Indian movies? What did she do in bed?

I briefly talked to an Indian chick in college. Gorgeous girl, but we we're completely incompatible. Pretty much a similar situation to OP.

Talked long enough to smash a few times then we went our separate ways. She with her own kind now. But we still speak when we see each other.
Who is she dating now?

Man I had a kid with an Indian woman and her family hated my guts. A couple of them tried to confront me and talk shyt but once they saw I was a real one, responsible, and would ride for my son they respected me. They didn’t all like me but they respected me and knew I was a real African warrior and that I would not take their shyt. The mom looooves me now and the dad likes me but won’t admit it. The family is dysfunctional AF..I ended leaving my son’s mom cuz she was tryna brjng that dysfunctional shyt into our house. I was like nope....
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Had a kid together too.

Ask Away.
Did you try counseling?
Will you get back with her?
How do you coparent her?
How do you plan to tell her about her cultures? And whom she identifies with?
How much do you pay in child support?
Would you date another Indian?
Why did yall get divorce what would you do different next time to prevent a divorce?
 

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Did you try counseling?
Will you get back with her?
How do you coparent her?
How do you plan to tell her about her cultures? And whom she identifies with?
How much do you pay in child support?
Would you date another Indian?
Why did yall get divorce what would you do different next time to prevent a divorce?
We did do counseling, her idea. unfortunately the counselor agreed with my perspective. That shyt only works if the man is in the wrong and willing to change. Women aren’t built that way. The rest of the questions in answered already.
 

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:mjlol: Cac alert.

His exwife is not white.

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i dont even know what you trying to say:yeshrug: what does that even mean in context?...everyone on the coli knows im black here I got about 12 proof picks in my own AMA thread....how about you:sas2:
 

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c00ning is a disease
Be the only nikka at a gathering twiddling your thumbs,while your wife and her Hindu family and friends converse in Hindi breh
 

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c00ning is a disease
Be the only nikka at a gathering twiddling your thumbs,while your wife and her Hindu family and friends converse in Hindi breh
Her family was Christian. :yeshrug:
But I agree with the rest. Didn’t like it one bit. But I feel the same way in general society living in a mostly non Black Country. Not sure what to do about it outside of going for 4 years at a HBCU. You can be the most pro black militant in America you still going be in situations like that during your life. Calling it c00ning without acknowledging my personal beliefs is essentially calling every black person in America a c00n for living here. At that point I hesitate to call the idealogy “pro” black since you essentially hate all black peoples in your vincinity.
 

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We did do counseling, her idea. unfortunately the counselor agreed with my perspective. That shyt only works if the man is in the wrong and willing to change. Women aren’t built that way. The rest of the questions in answered already.
Each of the questions? Bro, answer it all. I read the entire thread.
 
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