I'm a Black guy that used to be married to an Indian woman AMA

[SheWantTheD]

All you hotep idiots wouldn't try to hit this?

we ain't impregnating or wifing tho

 

[WaveGang]

none of that kama sutra stuff. They have as much sex swag as you'd expect from a dude like Anziz Ansari. Women are no different.

fukked 2 and this is true

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Had a kid together too.

Ask Away.

In these sort of relationships I’m always going to ask how was it being around her family?

Being from the Caribbean I comfy around the Indians who are from there but not the ones that are from actual India!

 

[Tiffrock]

I knew an Indian girl who only dated Black dudes- she was disowned for a while - they had her marriage arranged and everything

She's from SC but lives in ATL

 

[Luke Cage]

In these sort of relationships I’m always going to ask how was it being around her family?

Being from the Caribbean I comfy around the Indians who are from there but not the ones that are from actual India!

i always felt awkward around them, but mostly because of the language barrier and the inability to really make small talk. Just sitting there looking at each other like

 

[Luke Cage]

I knew an Indian girl who only dated Black dudes- she was disowned for a while - they had her marriage arranged and everything

She's from SC but lives in ATL

when you say disowned for while, do you mean they eventually warmed back up to her?

 

[Tiffrock]

when you say disowned for while, do you mean they eventually warmed back up to her?

Yeah they speak now

 

[NormanConnors]

at some of some of the questions in here.

One of my old homies from college used to mess with an indian chick for a good minute even after graduation. Cool chick but I remember her saying she never told her folks about the relationship (being in one with a brotha) because they would legit kill her.

Anyhow OP kind of reminded me of Ace on this joint, or at least when you and her were first starting out.

 

[Bunchy Carter]

I found a wedding pic of opp:

 

[Luke Cage]

I found a wedding pic of opp:

that dude is indian, i think. but i aint gonna lie i had something like this on at the reception. i thought it looked cool though

 

[Lootha VanDraws]

that dude is indian, i think. but i aint gonna lie i had something like this on at the reception. i thought it looked cool though

Ohhh shyt ! You had on the Air Aladdins !

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Ohhh shyt ! You had on the Air Aladdins !

Sneaker heads gon be flippin them shyts like some Yeezys.

 

[egsteel]

The same with my mom. People would assume she was Hispanic and talk to her before she had to tell them the same.

my Turkish professor said this happened to him as well. Mexicans aren't too good at discerning their own. lol

 

[egsteel]

Did you ever attempt to learn the language?
Was she/family supportive of you learning?
Could it have brought you closer if you had learned?

 

[monsterpreneur]

OP
Did it ever cross your mind that her being insecure about her dark skin toned will affect your future children when y’all were dating? And now that you guys have a girl, does it indeed affect your child?