I've had some incels hit me up and I know at least one incel dude here in Cali.
I would strongly advise to not come looking for bytches That being said all women sense thirst so a decently long trip or a series of smaller trips will put "matrix women" in perspective.
If you do decide to travel or expat I can say that if you can get 1200 bucks in passive income a month you'd be fine in Cali just like 1400 is a decent ballpark figure in Santo Domingo.
Keep in mind that's not covering going to the clubs every night an buying bottles on henny, and it doesn't cover tricking but it cover some cool dates and a tinder gold account.
Also Learn the language !!! I know dudes who go fluent in conversational spanish in 16 months. You don't have to take a language class, you can study 20 minutes every day with a youtube class ( I use Spanish with Paul)
I prefer gritty spanish over duolingo but I recommend 3 lessons a day
Listen to local music to get the pronunciation and listen to toddler level cartoons like Peppa Pig, Little kids shows speak slowly and they repeat themselves even if you're not paying attention you will pick up the words in no time.