I’m 25 year old and still a Virgin. I could use some some advice. UPDATE: I finally lost my v card

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Don’t even worry about it. You focus on yourself and building yourself up. It will come. No need to pressure it.

Enjoy life. Enjoy meeting women and just have fun with it. You’ll be iight.

Wear Chelsea Boots for extra height. Saint Laurent’s give you 2-3 inches, depending on the boot.
 
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Lean into your strengths. In this case personality.

There are all manner of in person social gatherings you can find on the meetup app eg exercise, photography, cooking, dining out, etc.

My personal favorite, especially when abroad are the cultural/language exchange joints. Go in there with some charisma, sense of humor, and with an inquisitive mind, and you will find personalities you click with. Worse case scenario you have a good time, learn a little something. Best case (likely) scenario you find some chick that likes you enough to give up the buns
 

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@Son_Of_God Oh yeah and wear Chelsea boots with a pair of distressed or fitted jeans.

Chelsea Boots give you 2-3 inches.
 

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you prolly 27 rn, you still got time to lose it.

you should def take ThemanfromVA advice, them 2-3 inches can help
 

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First off I want to say that I am not an incel and I don’t hate women. I don’t blame no one else but myself for this.

I have a stable job but I’m trying to get an IT cert, I’m average looking and I workout from time to time and I live on my own. With that said I’m still a virgin. The reason why I’m still a Virgin is because I have no confidence around women at all and this stems from my very short height (I’m 5’5’’ by the way.) I’ve been rejected a few times due to my short stature and I’ve seen a lot of couples were the man is significantly taller and knowing how much women like tall guys I figure why even bother so I simply just stop approaching women.

Lately I have been feeling very depressed about still being a virgin and I’ve decided to finally do something it but honestly I don’t know where to start. I have no game, I only have a few friends and my father and uncles were physically abusive to me so I can’t go to them for anything and all I have is younger cousins. I also don’t do nightclubs and bars because I’m a introvert.

Can someone offer me some of guidance on what to do?
Travel to a foreign country and get an escort:yeshrug::hubie::win::manny:
 

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@CopiousX @semicko82 @CarmelBarbie @Booksnrain @BigMoneyGrip and anyone else that cares. I finally lost my virginity four days ago.

I met a women from Tinder last month, we been on a couple of dates together and we both had sex around the 3rd one. I told her that I was virgin around the 1st date and she was very understanding and even flattered about the whole thing.

Having sex didn’t make me a change man at all, I still felt the same the very next day. :yeshrug: but I am happy that I was able to find a women who like me for me and didn’t have any issues about my height, looks or any other superficial crap.
 

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@CopiousX @semicko82 @CarmelBarbie @Booksnrain @BigMoneyGrip and anyone else that cares. I finally lost my virginity four days ago.

I met a women from Tinder last month, we been on a couple of dates together and we both had sex around the 3rd one. I told her that I was virgin around the 1st date and she was very understanding and even flattered about the whole thing.

I’m glad that I was finally able to get it out of the way. Having sex didn’t make me a change man at all, I still felt the same the very next day. :yeshrug: but I am happy that I was able to find a women who like me for me and didn’t have any issues about my height, looks or any other superficial crap.
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@CopiousX @semicko82 @CarmelBarbie @BigMoneyGrip and anyone else that cares. I finally lost my virginity four days ago.

I met a women from Tinder last month, we been on a couple of dates together and we both had sex around the 3rd one. I told her that I was virgin around the 1st date and she was very understanding and even flattered about the whole thing.

Having sex didn’t make me a change man at all, I still felt the same the very next day. :yeshrug: but I am happy that I was able to find a women who like me for me and didn’t have any issues about my height, looks or any other superficial crap.
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