I’m 25 year old and still a Virgin. I could use some some advice. UPDATE: I finally lost my v card

[Child_Of_God]

op you a lightweight, holla at me when you reach that big 3-0....then add a couple of more years to that :morepeople:

I hope everything works out for you too breh.

 

[Jesus]

@Thkmra fukk you nikka

 

[SheWantTheD]

Get on your purpose

 

[AmenhotepIV]

First off I want to say that I am not an incel and I don’t hate women. I don’t blame no one else but myself for this.

I have a stable job but I’m trying to get an IT cert, I’m average looking and I workout from time to time and I live on my own. With that said I’m still a virgin. The reason why I’m still a Virgin is because I have no confidence around women at all and this stems from my very short height (I’m 5’5’’ by the way.) I’ve been rejected a few times due to my short stature and I’ve seen a lot of couples were the man is significantly taller and knowing how much women like tall guys I figure why even bother so I simply just stop approaching women.

Lately I have been feeling very depressed about still being a virgin and I’ve decided to finally do something it but honestly I don’t know where to start. I have no game, I only have a few friends and my father and uncles were physically abusive to me so I can’t go to them for anything and all I have is younger cousins. I also don’t do nightclubs and bars because I’m a introvert.

Can someone offer me some of guidance on what to do?

Bruh

Even with half those qualifications

You can and will meet a baddie

I see it on TV and in the streets allll the time

Brothers with no jobs/career/money/car/housing

And they smashing

Every one gets a dry spell or two

Get back out there and just talk or get you a good wing man

Don't ask for anything sexual or desperate

Just get comfortable around women

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

nikka your name on here is Son_Of_God talking about you need help to start fornicating...

 

[hayesc0]

I never know if people are being serious on here anymore lol.

 

[Contrefaire]

Exactly as paying for p*ssy when you are a virgin and have no experience with women is like hustling backwards.

Breh if you are a virgin and you are in your mid to late twenties live your truth.Learning game is actually learning in how to deal and to be social with women and you are not going to do that by smashing an escort.

This is true and all but his virginity is likely something that's really holding him back socially. Even though only HE knows it, it's still a monkey on his back.

I don't think anyone here (ITT anyway) is saying he should pay for sex now and forever. But it's better to pay for p*ssy now to get "it" out of the way and strategize on getting "real women" later, than to be simultaneously worried about being a virgin, finding a decent female he enjoys being around AND trying to fukk her.

 

[Bumblebreh]

This is true and all but his virginity is likely something that's really holding him back socially. Even though only HE knows it, it's still a monkey on his back.

I don't think anyone here (ITT anyway) is saying he should pay for sex now and forever. But it's better to pay for p*ssy now to get "it" out of the way and strategize on getting "real women" later, than to be simultaneously worried about being a virgin, finding a decent female he enjoys being around AND trying to fukk her.

It is not something I would recommend but ops biggest barrier is not knowing in how to socialize with women.And not knowing in how to approach women and not knowing in how to spit game.It is his mentality that is holding him back and I do not see in how instantly getting laid is going to solve his confidence issue.
His words are "I have no confidence around women" a breh is never really going to have much luck with women if his confidence is not up to par.
All of these theories will just complicate things as it is really about trial and error.We have all been through rejection and op has to go through that and op has to be in the right state of mind.If op is constantly thinking about getting laid it is going to fukk his game up.
Annd yeah op can get laid but if he lacking any relationship skills as he gets older he is going to struggle hard.

 

[Contrefaire]

It is not something I would recommend but ops biggest barrier is not knowing in how to socialize with women.And not knowing in how to approach women and not knowing in how to spit game.It is his mentality that is holding him back and I do not see in how instantly getting laid is going to solve his confidence issue.

Instantly getting laid is NOT going to solve his confidence issues, sure - nor did I ever say it would. But it WILL relieve him of a pretty significant burden (his virginity).

His words are "I have no confidence around women" a breh is never really going to have much luck with women if his confidence is not up to par.
All of these theories will just complicate things as it is really about trial and error.We have all been through rejection and op has to go through that and op has to be in the right state of mind.If op is constantly thinking about getting laid it is going to fukk his game up.
Annd yeah op can get laid but if he lacking any relationship skills as he gets older he is going to struggle hard.

Like I said, I don't disagree with most of this, but I'm of the opinion that if a 20-something+ breh says he's still a virgin and having issues....he should probably work on not being a virgin first and foremost before anything else.

 

[ExodusNirvana]

1. Lift

2. Shoot your shot


That's it honestly. The first is from my personal experience. When you lift on a regular basis? Say twice a week and the rest of the week just do cardio and stretch, or some other activity (martial arts, pilates, yoga, etc.) women will be naturally drawn to you. Little things like grabbing your arm or touching your shoulder. That will let you know you're going the right route.

The second advisement...just keep trying. Have a set of standards in what you're looking for physically in a female, because realistically speaking, that's the first thing you're going to see, not her personality. Walk up say hello, start a convo, keep it positive and light and get the number.

 

[mortuus est]

virgin ass kneega

25 and never got no puss azz kneega

son of god but never had no ass kneega

5 foot 5 midget no pum pum ass kneega

never seen a naked women in front of your face ass kneega

coli plz help my dikk dry ass kneega

 

[mortuus est]

Alright, that makes sense.

youll still be 5 foot 5 at 30 my dude , start now get it out your system

 

[Silkk]

Pay for it.

Could've /thread right here

 

[Gator48]

Start with fat chicks...

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

Bro I'ma tell you something real.

Your virginity is the most precious thing in the world. Don't go out and stick your dikk in the wrong woman. Because one night of passion can turn into a life full of misery and regret.

You should keep it til you find the right woman to lose it to. fukk what all these so called "alpha" males on here be talking about. Most of these nikkas (including myself) on here lost our virginity to a nothing ass woman.

You still got your virginity. Don't waste it.