if youre text ratio with your girl isnt 1:3... youre sharing

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:leon: is that right? i know alot of southeast asian women are very influenced by the dolla. They're very prevalent in the escort/"massage" bizzness. Chinese women may be different.


In any case, good wishes friend.

By your logic, i got lucky.

Still, i understand what you mean. Having a front row seat in Asian culture i can say that their motivations for family are not the cinderella story that american women are programmed into. With them its more about securing the best future possible for their family and often times that comes before falling madly in love with their significant other. Still, studies have shown that arranged marriages last longer than modern western marriages which is bizarre but it is what it is, friend. :manny:
 

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By your logic, i got lucky.

Still, i understand what you mean. Having a front row seat in Asian culture i can say that their motivations for family are not the cinderella story that american women are programmed into. With them its more about securing the best future possible for their family and often times that comes before falling madly in love with their significant other. Still, studies have shown that arranged marriages last longer than modern western marriages which is bizarre but it is what it is, friend. :manny:

Having grown up with asians in my community all my life, i agree with your assessment. They tend to be very family orientated and live with their parents for a long time. Good people though, i just always worry if i'm just a pawn in their success plan.

But i'd imagine arranged marriages are a little harder to get out of then western marriages, which would explain the longevity of them.
 

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you get what you put in...

but if you have a girl, she should be putting in text work too

when yall start dating...its good morning texts, lunch texts, how was your days texts, to maybe a few text, or even days without texts smh...but if yall chatting online, then there is some communication there...

but then if you start dating, if they girl really feeling you, she should be sending more of the texts...
 

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Having grown up with asians in my community all my life, i agree with your assessment. They tend to be very family orientated and live with their parents for a long time. Good people though, i just always worry if i'm just a pawn in their success plan.

But i'd imagine arranged marriages are a little harder to get out of then western marriages, which would explain the longevity of them.

You can only be a pawn if you allow yourself to be moved. Sadly i think individuals of African descent are less likely to help out their family members financially than Asians. Asians will give large sums of money to family members and be patient with repayment. Often times this is difficult in our community. I admire their willingness to help their people when they need it.
 

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You can only be a pawn if you allow yourself to be moved. Sadly i think individuals of African descent are less likely to help out their family members financially than Asians. Asians will give large sums of money to family members and be patient with repayment. Often times this is difficult in our community. I admire their willingness to help their people when they need it.

That is a problem in the white community as well friend. If you aren't making your own dough, you need to get the fukk out and go make some, is the word. As both of our races have been here for a long time, maybe we have difficult standards to obtain to. I respect their family first culture though :clap: their thirst for knowledge and schooling is hard to beat.
 

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This thread is too f*cking real :whew:

If she aint drowning ya inbox you share that girl :mjpls:

Yall see when girls are out they have their noses in there phones 24/7


So If she aint constantly sending you messages. Someone else getting them:wow:
 
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