"If you wanna see me you'll give me gas "- who was in the wrong here

[Legal]

Would've checked out as soon as she said she didn't have gas money, but budgeting apparently included restocking on weed.

Breh knew she wasn't about shyt, but wanted it to play out so he could post it online. Cornball shyt.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

No one is wrong here.

I'd have sent the $10 for some p*ssy though she's pulling straight up to the crib. I don't have to pick her up/take her out. $10 for gas. Some Netflix and the little liqs I got in the crib. He's saving bread.

 

[mag357]

nikka.... I'm not reading all that shyt...

But if I'm in my crib.. and a bytch I want to fukk saying she wanna come thru.. but just give her gas money...




Then I'll give the bytch the lil bit of gas money..

I'm really not understanding the dilemma

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

That's a woman with a checklist.

 

[2-Digit]

I really don't understand this mindset of "if you really fw me, then you'll give me money" that a lot of women seem to be on.

I also don't understand why relationships always have to be transactional.

I guess if yall just smashing, it's whatever, but if I was in the dating pool, I would not be able to take her seriously.

 

[WaveMolecules]

She’s wrong but they’re both playing games. They’re both trying to “win” some imaginary clout points.
shyt is pointless.
If I wanna see you, I’ll see you. If I don’t I won’t.

 

[Weaver31]

I was with a girl for 7 years and she texted me while at work (and she was at home, on the couch, at my house) asking for gas money.

7 years together. She was an attorney. She was living in my house and paid no bills... and she didn't have $5 in the world to put gas in her car.

So I took a long hard look at my life and realized this wasn't going to be what I was gonna do for the rest of my life.

So I bushed her.

I can't deal with a broke woman. I just... can't.

So she was an ATTORNEY, LIVED with u, DIDN'T PAY ANY BILLS, and didn't have money to put gas in her car?? WTF was she doing with her money??

 

[Insensitive]

I tried dating a woman in her 30's, THIRTIES that was criminally broke.

She thought I was the come up after she came to the crib and saw all my shyt.

I dodged a bullet when I cut that one off.

 

[Whore D'oeuvres]

I'm taking her side for several reasons. Let me explain...


First off, we don't know what was going on before this. Context tells me they already discussed this. She already told him what was up but he asked "are you still-" and she replied with a statement affirming that he already said he wasn't giving her gas mone;y but he's asking again anyway.

Then when she says she's straight on it all, he decides to patronize and antagonize her. nikka just leave the bytch alone when she says she's straight. But he needs to put her down. She goes through the trouble of explaining her reasons and gets clowned some more.

He says she should've re-upped with him so he's obviously some kinda weedman. Not helping his case atp.

Whole lotta clowning her for her budget. We don't know how far away this nikka is from her. And if she had enough gas to get to work, who cares? I doubt she's out here saving a lot of her money but who knows? Can't really judge her life off that.
Don't know her age or situation but if she's paying her bills and on a budget, at least she's not a complete bum.

Also, he could've agreed to give her the money when she got there if he was worried about her not coming.

He said this is the first link. He's asking her to pull up and not taking her on a date anywhere so he wasn't taking her seriously, anyway. Either she's low quality, ugly, known hoe; or he's a broke weedman.

These are my thoughts.

 

[You Win Perfect]

I actually had a shorty text me this the other night. She didn’t ask me for gas money directly. She just mention she only had like a quarter tank until she got paid a couple days later. I just went and picked her up. Dudes be gettin too emotional for nothing. Dude obviously in his feelings. It’s just fukkin. Hit the next chick up.

I’ll take her side cuz she obviously not to ashamed to say give me gas and I’ll come to smash. Dude got emotional over gas money. Just throw her $10 for the round trip, pick her up or keep it movin.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I caved in once and gave a chick gas money but I knew the p*ssy was pretty much guaranteed. I will say the $17 I gave her to put in her Kia were worth it .

She eventually got greedy and asked for too much and got bushed.

I would’ve probably threw her a lil gas money if I was gonna get the draws. Gas is cheaper than paying for a dinner date. I’d never take her seriously for a relationship tho.

Why can’t buddy drive to her tho? That would’ve been my compromise. He sounds broke too

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

I tried dating a woman in her 30's, THIRTIES that was criminally broke.

She thought I was the come up after she came to the crib and saw all my shyt.

I dodged a bullet when I cut that one off.

how fat was the ass?

 

[BaldingSoHard]

What did she spend her money on?

"What's hers is hers and what's his is OURS"

I take it she was spending her money on clothes, a fancy whip, and trips....and leaving you to cover everything else.

So she was an ATTORNEY, LIVED with u, DIDN'T PAY ANY BILLS, and didn't have money to put gas in her car?? WTF was she doing with her money??

Turns out she was helping support her sister's broke-ass families.

But I didn't know that at the time and quite frankly, wasn't prepared to make that my problem.

 

[Weaver31]

I'm on neither party side. Dude didn't wanna get finessed for the gas money, I get that. But that was so immature and petty to post that convo.

As for the chick, I respect that she pays her bills and is budgeting but her properties are off. Gas money comes before weed, alcohol, drugs and unnecessary shyt like new clothes, going out to eat, etc.

And like others said, they both not really feeling each other like that. It's obvious.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

Forget who wrong and right here
What's real is that this is massive levels of promiscuity on the girl's part.

She that promiscuous and buys weed before gas, wait and watch when she get pregnant and not even sure who the father is.