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What kind of flaws would you have to discover to reconsider marrying whoever you're living with?

To me, it's about compatibility and can we survive as a family unit living under the same roof? Are there any hidden quirks I need to know about which could be deal-breakers etc.
 

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What kind of flaws would you have to discover to reconsider marrying whoever you're living with?

I tend to prefer keeping my condo clean at all times, will you be helping me clean up or would I be cleaning up around you for example. I've met plenty of girls who do this, who grew up keeping their own rooms looking like shyt.

I've lived with a girl for several months and had to live with that, she wouldn't leave after I've had enough only when I threatened to bring in an attorney did she GTFO. :camby:
 

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Would you be with a man or in a situation that most of the world didn't want? :usure:
We all have egos that need to be fed :patrice:

Honestly, what most people want is not my concern. Am I happy, does he fulfill my needs, and etc. is what concerns me. Its nice when people look at your relationship in a positive light, but their approval will not dictate how I feel about my relationship. Also, you know there are tons of haters out there who will never give you props.
 

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Honestly, what most people want is not my concern. Am I happy, does he fulfill my needs, and etc. is what concerns me. Its nice when people look at your relationship in a positive light, but their approval will not dictate how I feel about my relationship. Also, you know there are tons of haters out there who will never give you props.
I guess you're right. My girl knows I'm an a$$hole and she loves feeding my ego by doing over the top shyt. :ahh:
 

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Why do y'all care so much about other dudes relationships?:skip: Ole cosmo ass nikkas.:russ:

What'll work for you ain't gonna work for everybody. If you ain't been HAPPILY married for at least 30-50 years what makes you think your opinion of marriage is relevant?

Don't come crying when y'all, submissive, live in, 50's housewife turns heel after you put a ring on it.
 

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Like what? No one is answering this question for me.

It could be a millions things. Think about things that would annoy you in a man that you couldn't deal with. Does he not flush after taking a dump? He doesn't shower for days, he has a secret coke habit etc etc lol
 

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Why do y'all care so much about other dudes relationships?:skip: Ole cosmo ass nikkas.:russ:

What'll work for you ain't gonna work for everybody. If you ain't been HAPPILY married for at least 30-50 years what makes you think your opinion of marriage is relevant?

Don't come crying when y'all, submissive, live in, 50's housewife turns heel after you put a ring on it.

The bolded...That shyt right there :bryan:
 

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It's a rough economy, I ain't trying to be taken to the cleaners, I'm doing just fine, I don't have to learn to live with you, you'll have to learn to live with me.
 

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Give me examples.


A person going out on inappropriate outings while in a relationship. Such as late night dinners with the opposite sex, clubs etc and be able to lie since they have space to do so.


Now on Friday night when your in that dress that shows everything, perfume he never smelled and getting ready to "go out"...."bae" gonna want some answers since he now has access to this information :mjpls:


The sort of info statistics don't show :mjpls:
 

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Is your name gonna be on the house? Or hers?

Just wanna know who's getting suckered in the end when she decides to initiate that divorce

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I'm trolling, of course.

Both of ours. If we divorce, we selling that bish and splitting the profit.

And @awkwardblackgirl, living together you can gauge each others cleaning habits, eating habits (don't want somebody who's gonna be :flabbynsick: in the future), how clingy they are, their mood when they come home from work everyday, and their sources of entertainment. These things can be faked when you only see each other once or twice a week, but not while living together for a whole year.
 

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I don't know what was said before but living together does not mean shyt. I have seen nikkas who have lived with their girl for years flip on them as soon as they get married.

In that situation fukk you gonna do?

Remember brehs women are patient
 
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