If you marry a woman without her completing a 1 year probationary period consisting of...

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I agree with most of this :ehh:

You left out the part where you need to make sure you're worthy of being submitted to though :mjpls:

I see too many dumb bum ass niccas talking about they want a woman to submit to them :pachaha: and they wonder why they get with the :rudy: face

If you are a man about your shyt a woman will NATURALLY follow your lead. The onus is on YOU, not them fellas...GET YOUR shyt TOGETHER FIRST!

I digg the premise of the thread though :myman:


Any man with the sack to look a woman in her eyes and say this is worthy. A man with principles and integrity is stronger than steel. We as men have no other hoops to jump through.
 

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in theory i agree with the TS. Problem is the laws are so fukked up now it's crazy (common law...). fukk around and your married by accident on your "trial period"...i live in the province of quebec where that shyt is not law (yet...) but still
 

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Seems kinda contradictory

Living together on the idea that "if this trial period works, then we can work for a lifetime" does not make much sense. That would be a using a conditional idea to justify an unconditional agreement. I'm sure a woman who really wants to get married can do that for a year or so.

There's a reason marriages where the couples pre-cohabitated (a) have a higher divorce rate (b) report higher levels of unhappiness than those who wait.

Also, it can be just as big of a risk, financially, to live with someone (relationship wise) you aren't married to.
 

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I'm referring more to his actions and his behaviour towards yourself.

For example If he says he's going to fix your car but instead he's making it rain at the strip club.

Main thing that would piss me off about that is giving me your word and not following through. I'm not a person to start acting different and not try to talk about it in an actual relationship. If we can't then :camby:

You know.
Lol nope that was a broad statement
 

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Main thing that would piss me off about that is giving me your word and not following through. I'm not a person to start acting different and not try to talk about it in an actual relationship. If we can't then :camby:


Lol nope that was a broad statement
This is one of my biggest problems with women.
 

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Its not only beneficial relationship wise, but also financially. You'd be able to save up for a house and honeymoon twice as fast cause ur both splitting the rent and utils. shyt, I could save 7200 a year if I was engaged and living with my fiance. And if we didn't work out :manny:, that's 7200 dollars to spend on backpage! :shaq:
 

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man we living together before we get married u might have some habits that i can't stand what i look like marrying u before hand then realizing u a bum and dont do shyt :camby: out here with that

if we live together and u are like that we can work on each others areas flaws we dont like too improve in that area in doing so the transition of marriage will be a lot more easier and no surprises either

only downside is this and i hate too say too many times male/female act all great but when them I DO WORDS COME they act like a total different person leave u wondering :why: :snoop: and who are u
where is the person i was with before marriage
 
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