If you marry a woman without her completing a 1 year probationary period consisting of...

[folasade]

Wouldn't it make more sense to have a traditional relationship and to be a traditional male instead? You guys are always bringing up the divorce rate but a lot of the couples that have divorced lived together before marriage. That should let you know that that isn't the smartest move to make relationship-wise.

 

[Bruh Man 5th Flo]

You trying to get that last gift?

looooooooooool nah homie i'm tired of her gifts....i need new gifts

 

[Firefly]

I got homies who been with a chick a few months thinking marriage.

Told em wait a year. Also YOU MUST LIVE UNDER THE SAME ROOF!!!!!!!!!

beforehand

 

[Rawtid]

I'd cook. At least one parent has to care enough about the kids to not let them get scurvy.. But I'd resent him unless he was mowing the lawn AND washing the car AND doing other shyt that I don't want to do. Qhats the "male" equivalent to cooking though? What can yall do to be useful?

They turn on the security system at night. Good grief, is that not enough!?!

 

[Huellz Santana]

You can disregard stats all you want, but fact is, you're putting yourself in a unconditional agreement on the premise of a conditional, short term idea. Anyone can cook and clean for a year. That's a pretty low bar when it comes to being financially responsible for someone for a lifetime if things go wrong.

If someone wants to be about you, then they will be about you. No trial run is going to convince them otherwise. Also, it's not protecting yourself when common law varies by judge and states that you can very well be financially responsible for a partner if you live with them.

I honestly can't think of a good reason to ask someone to marry me and then after the fact try to se if they are fit for marriage. That's hustling backwards, unless you are moving in with girlfriends, which is still, pretty financially risky.

so there's no point in getting married period. gotcha​

 

[really]

Living under the same roof
Operating in full WIFE duties and functions(girlfriends and wives aint the same)
Showing full submission
A checklist of personal requirements and grading her



You lose. After you've been together decide to marry, this needs to kick in immediately. Men lose the hardest in court due to feminism so ya girl will be forced to pay a fee for "freedoms". Engagement periods should be her proving ground, she shouldn't feel like she made it.





If she says no then she is showing early signs of being combative, thats a strike.


If she says her family and friends don't approve then that's a strike too. You're more important than her daddy, momma, sister, brother, cousin, play aunts and homegirls. If they opinions are so important she should be fukking them instead.


Any signs of unwillingness on her part to put a down payment on a union that can ruin a mans life at the drop of a woman's dime can't be trusted.



Thank you based OG's for knowledge and the ones who went through that so I wouldn't have to.

I love this shyt

 

[really]

If you get married you lost period

Post of the Decade

 

[Nintendough]

No , I don't like standing in lines.

LOL So what you're paid well to do now you couldn't potentially, at some point, go into business for yourself? Like do you HAVE to work for someone else all your life in order to be in the occupation you're in. I'm going with NO and I don't care what you say. You're far from dumb, so sucka, you do have the POTENTIAL to be rich and/or wealthy doing what you're doing now. Let's not be short-sighted. I refuse to let you think that way.

I'd spoil you for being such a good encourager.

 

[Milk N Cookies]

True, if u don't when you get married everything surfaces... The question is can you handle it? It's the same for men...

 

[ScoopNScore]

Living under the same roof
Operating in full WIFE duties and functions(girlfriends and wives aint the same)
Showing full submission
A checklist of personal requirements and grading her



You lose. After you've been together decide to marry, this needs to kick in immediately. Men lose the hardest in court due to feminism so ya girl will be forced to pay a fee for "freedoms". Engagement periods should be her proving ground, she shouldn't feel like she made it.





If she says no then she is showing early signs of being combative, thats a strike.


If she says her family and friends don't approve then that's a strike too. You're more important than her daddy, momma, sister, brother, cousin, play aunts and homegirls. If they opinions are so important she should be fukking them instead.


Any signs of unwillingness on her part to put a down payment on a union that can ruin a mans life at the drop of a woman's dime can't be trusted.



Thank you based OG's for knowledge and the ones who went through that so I wouldn't have to.

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