If you marry a woman without her completing a 1 year probationary period consisting of...

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I'm really considering doing this myself, but there are many benefits to cohabitation.
my advice to you ladies as youngins honestly is what i did....once he's given you a ring and you're ENGAGED you can go for it. living with your fiance is much different than living with a "boyfriend" imo and speaks at least to his genuine intentions for you. but before that i'd be VERY skeptical :ld:
 

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What risk? :dahell: Breaking your nail while dialing 911 when you want get the cops on your man because he pissed you off and fake crying so that they believe he put hands on you?



The risk of having joint custody and losing out on child support aka nail, hair and momma's night out funding?
I'm not even sure what you're worried about when you said yourself the profession you're in doesn't pay well. you could easily secure a woman that makes more than you and the whole money thing wouldn't be an issue anymore.
 

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my advice to you ladies as youngins honestly is what i did....once he's given you a ring and you're ENGAGED you can go for it. living with your fiance is much different than living with a "boyfriend" imo and speaks at least to his genuine intentions for you. but before that i'd be VERY skeptical :ld:
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So YES, if my husband needed me to be "the protector" (whatever the hell that means) I'd do it!


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Lmmfao!!! Get the fukk out here!! Same dude saying a man shouldn't date a woman with kids...don't play another mans saved game and all that. A man that does it is stupid but a woman is a keeper. Y'all are a trip on this bytch.
apples and oranges
 

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Not even but not surprised you'd say that.
Very rare for a woman to marry a guy with kids but very common for a simp to cape a woman with one.

The rules apply different when it comes to men with kids.
 

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I'm not even sure what you're worried about when you said yourself the profession you're in doesn't pay well. you could easily secure a woman that makes more than you and the whole money thing wouldn't be an issue anymore.


I said wont get rich, didn't say you don't get paid well. :beli:



Kitchen is -------------> way :beli:
 

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This was a telling admission lol, you and @PartyHeart both showed that you don't quite understand what it means. Let's chalk this up to one of those things that the opposite gender can never feel/understand.

Ok. The biological argument is a slippery slope IMO but it's not worth arguing about.

lol this is easy to say...until y'all need the yard cleaned or that heavy furniture moved, or paying for dates, or making the first move etc etc etc.

Ugh. I always wanna agree with you until you say something ridiculous. How do you think households headed by single mothers get that stuff done? Does the yard care about gender roles? The grass is gonna grow whether or not there's a man around to cut the lawn.

Like I said before, we don't have to follow gender roles.
 

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Living under the same roof
Operating in full WIFE duties and functions(girlfriends and wives aint the same)
Showing full submission
A checklist of personal requirements and grading her



You lose. After you've been together decide to marry, this needs to kick in immediately. Men lose the hardest in court due to feminism so ya girl will be forced to pay a fee for "freedoms". Engagement periods should be her proving ground, she shouldn't feel like she made it.





If she says no then she is showing early signs of being combative, thats a strike.


If she says her family and friends don't approve then that's a strike too. You're more important than her daddy, momma, sister, brother, cousin, play aunts and homegirls. If they opinions are so important she should be fukking them instead.


Any signs of unwillingness on her part to put a down payment on a union that can ruin a mans life at the drop of a woman's dime can't be trusted.



Thank you based OG's for knowledge and the ones who went through that so I wouldn't have to. :wow:


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I totally believe that I should test drive a car before I buy it. :ufdup: The same goes with marriage. We have to live together before we make that next step......that could possibly endanger my finances in the future...and your health.
 

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Paranoid nikkas...with all the fukking rules what's the use of even getting into a LTR or marriage? :comeon:
 
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