If you marry a woman without her completing a 1 year probationary period consisting of...
- Thread starter Nintendough
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Even though that's not what I'm doing, it's better than begging for brownie points from other men and then trying to mask such as heterosexuality.Y'all put on more for a show for each other. It's really pathetic. Most of the females on here aren't lookers, I'll admit, but that don't mean you should try to get male attention out of desperation.
Don't throw the desperation word at me you admit that most of these females aren't lookers but you're still begging for brownie points.
It's aight, you got your daps caping out here. Job well done, Superman.
I'm curious, what do modern women think their roles are in a family unit these days? The common answer seems to be "everything's 50/50", but is it really? For instance, could a man say "i'll do the cooking, while you clean the yard/fix stuff" or if late at night and there's noise downstairs he could say "honey I heard something go down and check it out" lol.
Women are nurturers and men are protectors, these are our inescapable roles in life. Doesn't mean we can't share certain responsibilites or switch it up every now and then... but asking that a woman should be able to cook and take care of her household shouldn't be an issue, just as asking a man to protect and secure his household.
Women are nurturers and men are protectors, these are our inescapable roles in life. Doesn't mean we can't share certain responsibilites or switch it up every now and then... but asking that a woman should be able to cook and take care of her household shouldn't be an issue, just as asking a man to protect and secure his household.
Nintendough
#Kliq
Don't grow up with your father and make threads exuding unnecessary and obviously stupid bravado about what men should do to compensate for "WHY HE DON'T WANT ME MAN?!" syndrome brehs.
stfu you struggling in an associates program
You been in junior college since 2006, got like 300 credits but still no degree.
This happened to me. He was talking to friends about things before coming to me first. I was NOT ok with it. I let him know, and it hasn't happened again. After the discussion, he said didn't even realize it may be an issue, and really neither did I until I saw how upset I was about it.. We learned from it together.
Cape
Pro
A real man should cook, clean, wash dishes, wear blouses, tuck his dikk between his legs for his woman. My wife get's the big piece of chicken and has final say. You Black men obviously have no idea how a real relationship works. I'm in the kitchen with my brother's wives on Thanksgiving.
stfu you struggling in an associates program
Holy shyt.
You should spend all this time simping for these black feminists on studying breh. I'm hard on hoes, sure. But I'm getting my Masters soon too.
PartyHeart
All Star
What does it mean to protect and secure your household? What tangible duties are associated with these?
LA Fisher
Banned
stfu you struggling in an associates program
Holy shyt.
You should spend all this time simping for these black feminists on studying breh. I'm hard on hoes, sure. But I'm getting my Masters soon too.
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
Actually graduated with my MBA Dec 2012, after entering undergrad Aug 2008 and graduating high school May 2008.stfu you struggling in an associates program
Typin' up fantasies about me won't make your father give a fukk about you.
I tried having a civil discourse with ole dude several times in this thread, even in spite of the light shyt he was sayin'. He can't help what his father did, but yeahYall just opened a demonic portal
Yep, cause if I wanted to simp a female on the internet and woo her I'd definitely tell her that she's not much to look at.Don't throw the desperation word at me you admit that most of these females aren't lookers but you're still begging for brownie points.
When a woman first told me that she would not date a man who grew up without his father, I thought that was a little extreme, but just from real life experience I can understand why. Heard that shyt back in high school like
Even in my social circle, the dudes who grew up with out their dads tend to be a little bit more insecure, less confident and expect a lot of crazy things out of women because they've never seen their own flesh and blood even interact with their mom in a wholesome, normal fashion. A lot of it is them trying to overcompensate for an idea of masculinity that they've never had. If you're a woman from a good background, I could see how that would cause allllll types of tension, because you'd literally have to "teach" him how to be a man, forcing you into the motherly role just off GP. Doesn't seem like a good relationship to fall in on. My homie lost a very good girl cause he basically was forcing her into the motherly role and she wasn't havin' it.
I'm not saying that people can't talk about their relationships and problems with their friends.
They should. Because their friends can offer them objective input.
But certain things need to stay between the people involved. Especially if it's just a 1-time thing.
Mr. Somebody
Friend Of A Friend
Think of men as the blueprint and we give women the blueprint so they can carry out the ideas of the leader. Men are the best dancers, cooks, tailors, etc but we give these positions to women because its better suited for their duties in the family. Women today say they want equality to the blueprint that men have created. These arent their ideas but they are great at carrying out our ideas which is why they say behind every great man is a woman. Women help us stick to our script.
I agree, a fresh perspective is always good. However, if friends know that you have a problem with something involving ME before I do, that's when it becomes a problem.