If you are over 35, why are you single?

[MJ Truth]

For a lot of people (I'd venture to say most?), their careers/jobs hold them back from a blossoming social life in general.

 

[Paper Boi]

I thought it dropped already

lol idk i'm only 26. don't let me ruin this exchange of ideas.

 

[Real]

My mom told me the other day i was too picky

Guess social media and youtube has my mind warped

 

[kej718]

I almost had a baby with my ex and when I decided to do it her whole personality changed (she didn't get pregnant, but we tried). It made me look at woman and marriage different after that. I wanted to wait until we were more financially stable (she had debt too), she wanted to have one right away and figure it out as we go. Don't know if I will ever get married, might have a kid in the future. Some of these women expect everything from you and bring nothing to the table so some people just feel like they have to chose wisely. The divorce rate is higher now too so if it doesn't work out and you are a man everything will be in her favor (alimony, kids, etc). Then there is a fact that some people come from single parent households so they can see first hand what happens if it doesn't work out.

 

[SheWantTheD]

 

[ORDER_66]

Too busy focusing on my work, my day job. my dreams of working in hollywood having my own media company... graphic novels, video games, merchandise... I feel my time is valuable and I don't have much of it to waste... women take up alot of your time emotionally and mentally.

 

[Cynic]

Too busy focusing on my work, my day job. my dreams of working in hollywood having my own media company... graphic novels, video games, merchandise... I feel my time is valuable and I don't have much of it to waste... women take up alot of your time emotionally and mentally.

Not over 35 or over 30 yet but I can second this

 

[apache]

Be old when your kids are growing up brehs...

 

[ill_will82]

35 speaking here and I'm a keep it 100. I have to work on myself first before I think about any woman. I don't date/put myself out there. It's not much out here that garners my interest.

I like women I find interesting & attractive at the same time but it's just a lot of variables to it, and being attractive alone isn't going to win me over. Also, I don't believe in settling just for anyone.

 

[King of Creampies]

got 3 businesses now so i have to split my time now between seattle and sf so i dont know what woman would put up with 2 weeks in WA and 2 weeks in cali for now.

kind of odd seeing how SF really handed me a defeat but now im back as a champ.

now im very shy around women as I don't know how to let someone in who can really be with me and not hurt me. so i act very quiet and aloof around women but strangely enough that draws them in

 

[King of Creampies]

Too busy focusing on my work, my day job. my dreams of working in hollywood having my own media company... graphic novels, video games, merchandise... I feel my time is valuable and I don't have much of it to waste... women take up alot of your time emotionally and mentally.

hey nikka hold some rep. you summed it up.

 

[King of Creampies]

I almost had a baby with my ex and when I decided to do it her whole personality changed (she didn't get pregnant, but we tried). It made me look at woman and marriage different after that. I wanted to wait until we were more financially stable (she had debt too), she wanted to have one right away and figure it out as we go. Don't know if I will ever get married, might have a kid in the future. Some of these women expect everything from you and bring nothing to the table so some people just feel like they have to chose wisely. The divorce rate is higher now too so if it doesn't work out and you are a man everything will be in her favor (alimony, kids, etc). Then there is a fact that some people come from single parent households so they can see first hand what happens if it doesn't work out.

deep and very true.

 

[ORDER_66]

hey nikka hold some rep. you summed it up.

:salutenas: Thx Fam...

 

[Daio]

Are you actively trying to make it happen now or just taking it day by day?

I've tried to make it happen. It doesn't work out. My career promotes the bachelor life (never home, always traveling)

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I aint to this point yet but I can see it happening. My longest relationship close to a year but that ain't really that long if u think about it. I loved her or thought I did but it didn't work out, I was hurting but then I got over it and looked at myself in the mirror like

because if I can get over her that quickly then it probably wasn't really love at all.