If women reach their sexual prime in their 30s, why are alot of marriages sexless?

[UserNameless]

I can safely say that perception is bullshyt. Our downtime increases between orgasms, but our stamina is unfuccwittable. Women in their 30's and up are more confident with their sexuality and orgasm much more easily, so I found I had to let them 'take a breather' while I was still ready to go. More than a few times I had to let them go to sleep and 'get mine' in the morning.

Your experience may vary.....
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I hear you... And I'm with you on that.

But the whole premise of this spin thread came from a desirability issue of a female blogger who wasn't getting sex from her then husband who is older.

So I'm not talking about the refractory period between episodes in a sexual encounter. I'm talking about sex drive and libido...and testosterone levels are higher when you're younger.

And testosterone levels are directly linked to sex drive and libido for men.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

i'd rather take sex advice from a virgin or a nikka that's got multiple kids and stds

Your dad is not a good role model.....if you even know who he is.....

i'm sorry, divorced. couldn't hold a marriage together but you making threads about getting back with your ex.

Takes two for any relationship to work and I didn't make any threads about that subject. Your attempts @ trying to 'get' me are laughable.​

 

[954UAlreadyknow]

Nah honestly i'm just a man in need of some new puzzy but my societally imposed morals don't allow me to cheat on my girl... Someone brought up the Coolidge effect and that's exactly what it is. I love my chick like mad but that has nothing to do with my d1ck. Women have castrated men in a sense because they go through all the motions when they find out you're fukking another b1tch and shame you into not wanting to do it again. They use your love of them against you with all of that bullsh1t crying not realizing WE were happier when I was fukking another b1tch every now and then.

Now I sit here a broken man watching all kinds of crazy porn and only fukking you on on holidays n' sh1t. Sometimes we go out to dinner and while we're enjoying steaks and getting drunk she talks all of that kinky sh1t like she can't wait. Meanwhile, i'm sitting there like on the inside knowing i'm taking my ass to bed and I will be up early in my office at home before you wake up beating my d1ck like a slave. Sounds crazy as sh1t but I was more sexually attracted to my girl when I was fukking with other b1tches although she is still just as beautiful as the day I met her.

It's confusing though because they are laughing it up and acting dusgusting while they are watching Stevie J on Love and Hip Hop fukkin other h0es but they tune in and watch the re runs every week.

shyt depressing

 

[marcuz]

Your dad is not a good role model.....if you even know who he is.....
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stop projecting ya failed lifestyle on me aint you the same one that made this post:

If you don't trust him, then you shouldn't get involved with him. The only reason I'm considering re-marriage to my ex is because I know I can trust her with my life.​

ya exwife getting smutted out by nikkas who really holding it down, and you trynna remarry the bytch​

 

[sixsixtwo]

Simps get married. Their wives get dikked out by nikkas like me. @ staying wifed up to the same p*ssy for the rest of your life.

SMH @ nikkaz doing chores on their Honey-Do list while their wife is getting piped down at a Best Western room that she paid for, mind you..

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

stop projecting ya failed lifestyle on me aint you the same one that made this post:




ya exwife getting smutted out by nikkas who really holding it down, and you trynna remarry the bytch

again this nicca killing me today

 

[kermit da hustla]

Damn! Why does the girl have to always be out fukking someone else. Do you seriously think that's ALWAYS happening when a woman becomes disinterested in her relationship?

Is this a trick question?

 

[Rawtid]

simply put, yes

What a sucky way to think.

 

[CrimsonTider]

Women give up the hot sex before marriage just to get you to put the ring on it, once you marry her there's no incentive to keep giving up the p*ssy..

She won.. Plus with no fault divorce & Big Daddy Gov't in her corner, she holds all the strings..

So you just assume that women don't like sex?

Women like and think about sex just as much as men.

This whole sexual peak thing is a debunked myth anyway. men peak at around 33, women peak at around 28. the myth is an excuse for women to be sluts in their 30s. ill post a couple things ive read:


Sexual Peak - AskMen


The Sexual Peak Myth - The Spearhead

What's a slut?

Nah honestly i'm just a man in need of some new puzzy but my societally imposed morals don't allow me to cheat on my girl... Someone brought up the Coolidge effect and that's exactly what it is. I love my chick like mad but that has nothing to do with my d1ck. Women have castrated men in a sense because they go through all the motions when they find out you're fukking another b1tch and shame you into not wanting to do it again. They use your love of them against you with all of that bullsh1t crying not realizing WE were happier when I was fukking another b1tch every now and then.

Now I sit here a broken man watching all kinds of crazy porn and only fukking you on on holidays n' sh1t. Sometimes we go out to dinner and while we're enjoying steaks and getting drunk she talks all of that kinky sh1t like she can't wait. Meanwhile, i'm sitting there like on the inside knowing i'm taking my ass to bed and I will be up early in my office at home before you wake up beating my d1ck like a slave. Sounds crazy as sh1t but I was more sexually attracted to my girl when I was fukking with other b1tches although she is still just as beautiful as the day I met her.

It's confusing though because they are laughing it up and acting dusgusting while they are watching Stevie J on Love and Hip Hop fukkin other h0es but they tune in and watch the re runs every week.

Is she not good at sex? are you not good at sex?

How can you prefer your hand to real life head and p*ssy.

Everything turning you on in those porns you can be doing in real life.

Pathetic

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

I hear you... And I'm with you on that.

But the whole premise of this spin thread came from a desirability issue of a female blogger who wasn't getting sex from her then husband who is older.

So I'm not talking about the refractory period between episodes in a sexual encounter. I'm talking about sex drive and libido...and testosterone levels are higher when you're younger.

And testosterone levels are directly linked to sex drive and libido for men.

Testosterone level plays a very small roll in regards to how much you desire your partner.

Effects of androgen treatment in impotent men with normal and low levels of free testosterone - Springer

If the desire is decreased, then, it follows, that you wouldn't engage in sexual intercourse as often. Looking at the figures on how many men cheat outside of marriage actually makes this point even more apparent. If their testosterone levels were the deciding factor, they wouldn't be able to cheat.
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[marcuz]

What a sucky way to think.

i suppose it is.

but women usually don't detach from a relationship unless they've got another one in the background. just my ignorant opinion, admittedly.

 

[Rawtid]

i suppose it is.

but women usually don't detach from a relationship unless they've got another one in the background. just my ignorant opinion, admittedly.

As long as you know it's ignorant.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

ya exwife getting smutted out by nikkas who really holding it down, and you trynna remarry the bytch

First: a post =/= a thread you dumb-fukk.

Second: My ex lives about 3 blocks from me and hasn't been with another man since I divorced her. Adults don't hide things like that from one another.

You're really not good at this so you should just stop before I embarrass you....again.​

 

[marcuz]

First: a post =/= a thread you dumb-fukk.

Second: My ex lives about 3 blocks from me and hasn't been with another man since I divorced her. Adults don't hide things like that from one another.

You're really not good at this so you should just stop before I embarrass you....again.​

that's what you think so old, yet so young minded.

 

[Mr. Negative]

cause the game fukked up and it ain't no balance to this shyt.

just two genders of people doing what they can to get the most out of life with the least amount of work while trying to fit into their gender stereotypes.

and a lot of people will only admit it to themselves while saying "oh well this is how it is and how it must be for everybody" out loud (cause the media really does enforce this shyt)...

men wifing chicks cause she's a good looking/acting girl that gives great head, does all that freaky shyt other girls would let you do and treats you like your mom (but is really a gossipy materialistic chickenhead who you know is lying about her sexual history)....

and women who throw themselves at dudes because they allow you to say "ours" instead of "yours" and you feel like you wont have to have a job in the future but ignore the fact that he's a dumb nikka slob with "bad boy" tendencies and hope that he'll change some kind of magical way....?

After a year-a few years, you realize that shyt you got with this person for was superficial as fukk, and you STILL gotta deal with that person you with when you bored with the life you married into, you still gotta go to bed with them, you don't really like them, they don't like you, and you cant stand each other enough to fukk.

or you just fukk every so ofter cause you bored.

so then nikkas start jacking off and cheating...

women cheat emotionally and/or physically.