If women reach their sexual prime in their 30s, why are alot of marriages sexless?

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

I've always wondered this. If women in their 30s are supposed to be going through their sexual prime, an increase in their libidos, why the hell does every married man complain about sexless marriages?

How does 15-20% translate into every married man? When do exceptions become the rule?

Why are dudes who've never been married even offering opinions in regards to sex during marriage?

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[beezy]

Nah honestly i'm just a man in need of some new puzzy but my morals don't allow me to cheat on my girl... Someone brought up the Coolidge effect and that's exactly what it is. I love my chick like mad but that has nothing to do with my d1ck. Women have castrated men in a sense because they go through all the motions when they find out you're fukking another b1tch and shame you into not wanting to do it again. They use your love of them against you with all of that bullsh1t crying not realizing WE were happier when I was fukking another b1tch every now and then.

Now I sit here a broken man watching all kinds of crazy porn and only fukking you on on holidays n' sh1t. Sometimes we go out to dinner and while we're enjoying steaks and getting drunk she talks all of that kinky sh1t like she can't wait. Meanwhile, i'm sitting there like on the inside knowing i'm taking my ass to bed and I will be up early in my office at home before you wake up beating my d1ck like a slave. Sounds crazy as sh1t but I was more sexually attracted to my girl when I was fukking with other b1tches although she is still just as beautiful as the day I met her.

It's confusing though because they are laughing it up and acting dusgusting while they are watching Stevie J on Love and Hip Hop fukkin other h0es but they tune in and watch the re runs every week.

didnt i just address the bolded? you owe it to yourself to just TRY and see how NOT bored you can become. its funny because i was gonna go back and edit my post and add that maybe yall need to bang out somethin strange on the side to see how much you appreciate your wifeys but you said you cant, and i promise you porn wont have that effect. also, i bet if yall were in danger of losing that puzzy yall would be like GIMME DATT!!

the makeup sex stir some shyt up and get her mad

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

Married women cheating you dumb nikka

Im MWPK[married women p*ssy killa}

Ive been hit on by hundreds of married women in my life and its why i dotn trust these hoes

Yall dudes get married if u want to share that hoe

 

[UserNameless]

The common perception is that males peak sexually at the end of the teenage years and the first few years of their 20s. Let's ponder that for a second.

 

[beezy]

This whole sexual peak thing is a debunked myth anyway. men peak at around 33, women peak at around 28. the myth is an excuse for women to be sluts in their 30s. ill post a couple things ive read:

Sexual Peak

Didn’t we already establish that women reach their sexual peak later in life than men?

While previous studies showed that women peak sexually at 30 and men at 18, a new survey tells us it's actually quite the contrary. A poll of 1,281 people found that women reach their zenith at 28, while men actually crest at 33.

So what accounts for the 15-year difference for men and why are we now peaking later than the ladies?

Sexperts believe that men peak later in life because sex is something we get better at the more we do it. For men, it takes years to figure out the inner workings of the vagina and even longer for that amazement to wear down so we can control our orgasms. The girls discover the birds and bees much sooner than us.

My theory is that women can have sex whenever they want, so they get into the game earlier, understand the rules and play more often. Men's peaks come later because steady sex and long-term relationships come later for us, and that's when we can practice more often.

That’s why many men get coaxed into moving in/getting married on the pretense of more steady sex. The same incentive doesn’t work the other way around.

Sexual Peak - AskMen

Those purveyors of the myth don’t account for Dr. David Schnarch’s dichotomy between genital prime and sexual prime. As spouted by the masses, the myth advocates the notion that these women want sex more rather than the more plausible argument that they are more experienced and comfortable with sex. If the myth is fully perpetuated, it grants 30-something women sexual liberation while offering nothing to men of the same age.

Genital prime occurs when a person has fully developed sexual organs and are most fertile. This occurs during adolescence and shortly after for both men and women. The myth holds men to the genital prime model while holding women to the other; it doesn’t compare apples to apples. This has the effect of making 30-something female sex some sort of animalistic expression rather than a more mature concept of sex that men of the same age achieve. The widely-accepted meme of late female sexual peak is a false dichotomy.

So why has this meme succeeded in entrenching itself so deeply in our collective mythology? First, it prevents us from being able to call 30-something sexually-peaking women sluts. Saying that a 30-something woman is at her peak is a PC way of saying she’s a slut. But given that “slut” implies something bad (and we know that a woman doing what she wants with her body can never be bad) those myth-sustainers prefer to say she is peaking. A peak implies something grandiose and wonderful. Peaks are achievements of milestones deserving rewards and ticker-tape parades. When the sexual prime myth is used to encourage and support these womens’ shady sexual behavior, it violates Schnarch’s dichotomy. Myth-purveyors seek to use the genital peak behavior of men at the age of 18 to condone womens’ slutiness at later ages by citing the need for equality of opportunity to express sexuality.

Second, older women HATE HATE HATE younger women. Sex is power. Younger women have held it in spades over their elders. Being that everyone desires to wrench power out of the hands of people who hold it, older women and those soon to be of that demographic have an incentive to glamorize the twilight years.

The Sexual Peak Myth - The Spearhead

 

[marcuz]

How does 15-20% translate into every married man? When do exceptions become the rule?

Why are dudes who've never been married even offering opinions in regards to sex during marriage?

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you have to be married to offer your opinion on marriage?

maybe nikkas aint trynna end up like you. married but they wife out there fukking other nikkas to get her jollies.

 

[UserNameless]

This whole sexual peak thing is a debunked myth anyway. men peak at around 33, women peak at around 28. the myth is an excuse for women to be sluts in their 30s. ill post a couple things ive read:


Sexual Peak - AskMen


The Sexual Peak Myth - The Spearhead

Good Googling...I was just reading that. I kinda like that site, too. I'ma bookmark it.

Buuuuuut....Testosterone levels are highest for men in the early twenties.

TLevels are linked to sex drive and libido in males.

 

[Rawtid]

Once the couple has children, I think things go downhill sexually. Children can occupy a lot of your energy. I'm going to see if I can find the stats on Childless couples and their sex lives vs couples with children and their sex lives.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

The common perception is that males peak sexually at the end of the teenage years and the first few years of their 20s. Let's ponder that for a second.

I can safely say that perception is bullshyt. Our downtime increases between orgasms, but our stamina is unfuccwittable. Women in their 30's and up are more confident with their sexuality and orgasm much more easily, so I found I had to let them 'take a breather' while I was still ready to go. More than a few times I had to let them go to sleep and 'get mine' in the morning.

Your experience may vary.....
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[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

you have to be married to offer your opinion on marriage?

Would you take sex advice from a virgin? Thought not.

maybe nikkas aint trynna end up like you. married but they wife out there fukking other nikkas to get her jollies.

I'm not married, you microcephalic ignoramus......
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[kermit da hustla]

Ive found that a lot of these women are the freaks at the bar ready to do whatever not giving a damn what they have at home.

Ive eaten real good off unhappy housewives

Simps get married. Their wives get dikked out by nikkas like me. @ staying wifed up to the same p*ssy for the rest of your life.

 

[Rawtid]

you have to be married to offer your opinion on marriage?

maybe nikkas aint trynna end up like you. married but they wife out there fukking other nikkas to get her jollies.

Damn! Why does the girl have to always be out fukking someone else. Do you seriously think that's ALWAYS happening when a woman becomes disinterested in her relationship?

 

[marcuz]

Would you take sex advice from a virgin? Thought not.​

i'd rather take sex advice from a virgin or a nikka that's got multiple kids and stds

I'm not married, you microcephalic ignoramus......

i'm sorry, divorced. couldn't hold a marriage together but you making threads about getting back with your ex.

 

[marcuz]

Damn! Why does the girl have to always be out fukking someone else. Do you seriously think that's ALWAYS happening when a woman becomes disinterested in her relationship?

simply put, yes

 

[msims]

How does 15-20% translate into every married man? When do exceptions become the rule?

Why are dudes who've never been married even offering opinions in regards to sex during marriage?

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QFT.

I'm not married, but I'm - faced with this 20% shyt.

20% my nikkas?

Thats the MINORITY! With those facts, most marriages (80% of them) are doing FINE in the sack. You nikkas are expecting 100% of marriages to be perfect?

80% of marriages out there know how to keep their sex lives going. The 20% should take notes.​