“If my partner requested a DNA test at birth, I’d agree, prove the truth, then leave because the trust is gone. It’s a DEALBREAKER for me”

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I guess this applies to dudes who don't trust there women.

Move smarter. Don't put yourself in that situation.

You can't control a woman's body. But you can control the woman you sleep with

 

[Devilinurear]

Then it should be done at any hint of questioning a lie or potential infidelity?

Not sure what you mean. I am saying if you as a man question the paternity of the child then there is no point in having a relationship even if the kid is yours. If you don't trust your woman don't be together

 

[Emoryal]

Not sure what you mean. I am saying if you as a man question the paternity of the child then there is no point in having a relationship even if the kid is yours. If you don't trust your woman don't be together

Trust doesn't just exist. It's built and maintained. If you give me reasons not to trust you then I'm not going to. My question was very simple should you break up with someone if they inquiry anything you do? You're saying that if you're not believing everything they say 100% without any doubt then they shouldnt be together is an internet opinion

 

[Devilinurear]

Trust doesn't just exist. It's built and maintained. If you give me reasons not to trust you then I'm not going to. My question was very simple should you break up with someone if they inquiry anything you do? You're saying that if you're not believing everything they say 100% without any doubt then they shouldnt be together is an internet opinion

What do you mean by inquiry
If I am in a good relationship we are not lying to each other.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

If I don't want her to see my phone, it's simply because I am doing dirt.

Prolly not what she is imagining, but I watch porn, keep in touch with ex lovers, and have a dude texting me about runtz.

There some shyt in there I don't want her to see. That's what "privacy" is all about. The space to do your dirty biz.

When it comes to kids I feel strongly that all the paperwork and testing needs to be done ASAP. There's multiple situations in my family where kids thought their father was someone else.

If you have nothing to hide, why not get everything straight day 1

You don’t have to be doing dirt if you don’t want your girl to see your phone. shyt ain’t her business. Hell, would you let ya girl just rifle through your wallet?

 

[1LurkerChick9]

No in all seriousness, that’s the point of being married before having kids; so you don’t have to deal with stuff like this.



However, things are a little crazy in 2024 and won’t be getting better soon, so hey- you can get your confirmation.



But my push present is going to be fire

Love the way you think

 

[Emoryal]

What do you mean by inquiry
If I am in a good relationship we are not lying to each other.

One question just to see if you're retarded and I'm not wasting my time. How do you know if someone is lying?

 

[Devilinurear]

One question just to see if you're retarded and I'm not wasting my time. How do you know if someone is lying?

Damn well fukk you

 

[mag357]

Hospitals do things for health reasons, not people's insecurity.

But if yall paying then Yeah I'm sure they'll run it up at the lab

But speaking of cha-ching, establishing paternity is the first step in out of wedlock child support. I'm sure plenty dudes rather not be established lol

Knowing the paternity of a child is for health reason

 

[mag357]

That’s what I’m thinking, some of the folks on here make it sounds like the only relationships out there are dysfunctional, where them and their partner are always out to get each other. I see the point of what the OP tweet is saying, but I also feel mad sorry for young men that have been influenced by rep pill GARBAGE. Being in a committed, healthy relationship where this kind of trash doesn’t need to be done is actually normal, but some dudes on here read the very worst situation on YouTube (which are just rage bait bullshyt 99% of the time) and apply it to 100% of all women. They screaming about this shyt, but at the same time they be scaring the hoes right out the gate, and no chick gonna lay with them anyway unless they tricking out here

U people are on a roll today....

There's married men who have been raising kids that aren't theirs.

Please stop

 

[Eternally Jaded]

She got a point the relationship is done if I question the paternity.

Is the relationship not at risk if she has a secret stash put away?

Curious.

 

[Devilinurear]

Is the relationship not at risk if she has a secret stash put away?

Curious.

??????
What does her having money got to do with me thinking she cheated on me?

 

[verbalkint]

wtf is this "how dare you question me?!" bs....
So I guess if her husband doesn't come home one night she has no right to question him the next morning right...

 

[Eternally Jaded]

??????
What does her having money got to do with me thinking she cheated on me?

Trust thing sir

 

[Devilinurear]

Trust thing sir

I'm confused. I obviously don't trust her if I question if I am the father. What's this other shyt yall adding???