“If my partner requested a DNA test at birth, I’d agree, prove the truth, then leave because the trust is gone. It’s a DEALBREAKER for me”

[Eternally Jaded]

What kind of women are yall seeding up and going through 40 weeks of pregnancy that this is even happening?

Easy way to nip this in the bud is make this a conversation well before y'all that serious, stressing it was something you swore you'd do well before you met her just off the strength of seeing what friends went through.

Then it's not about her or y'all, just something you promised yourself and if she rocks with you it wouldn't be an issue.

Hit her with the ultimatum before she does it to you.

Then when you do make sure, y'all got a road back to each other even if she gets in a snit.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Don't you trust me.

 

[Umoja]

Same women will turn in the 007 when it comes to breaking into your phone.

The gaslighting must end.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

This should be automatically done when the child is born, by the hospital. I don’t get why this is not a thing.

Hospitals do things for health reasons, not people's insecurity.

But if yall paying then Yeah I'm sure they'll run it up at the lab

But speaking of cha-ching, establishing paternity is the first step in out of wedlock child support. I'm sure plenty dudes rather not be established lol

 

[Mowgli]

Yea just get a DNA test done privately

 

[ℒℴѵℯJay ELECTUA]

Sure embrace the single motherhood, idiot.

 

[Shadow King]

I need to expedite this snip-snip.

She ain’t going anywhere.

Maybe, maybe not. She now has a reason to get greedy with child support.

This should be automatically done when the child is born, by the hospital. I don’t get why this is not a thing.

Because exposes women and disrupts the security they're provided.

 

[Neuromancer]

If you have nothing to hide then what's the problem?

 

[Wild self]

Notice who not responding to this thread....?

 

[Gloxina]

Notice who not responding to this thread....?

 

[Wild self]

Thank you for confirming that you cheated on your hubby and gave birth to another man's kid behind his back.

 

[Gloxina]

Thank you for confirming that you cheated on your hubby and gave birth to another man's kid behind his back.

 

[Gloxina]

No in all seriousness, that’s the point of being married before having kids; so you don’t have to deal with stuff like this.



However, things are a little crazy in 2024 and won’t be getting better soon, so hey- you can get your confirmation.



But my push present is going to be fire

 

[Doobie Doo]

Swab lil breh mouth in secret

That's all you got to do. And in NC you get 60 days to contest paternity. And I know thru experience

 

[Pressure]

Easy way to nip this in the bud is make this a conversation well before y'all that serious, stressing it was something you swore you'd do well before you met her just off the strength of seeing what friends went through.

Then it's not about her or y'all, just something you promised yourself and if she rocks with you it wouldn't be an issue.

Hit her with the ultimatum before she does it to you.

Then when you do make sure, y'all got a road back to each other even if she gets in a snit.

I agree. These hypothetical scenarios are stemming from a lack of communication which likely is leading to the distrust in the first place.

From my own experience we did the genetic testing so it was handled then and early.