“If my partner requested a DNA test at birth, I’d agree, prove the truth, then leave because the trust is gone. It’s a DEALBREAKER for me”

[KidJSoul]

Oh yeah

My biggest annoyance at women with this issue

Is that they don't have a problem with women who hide money as a rainy day fund in case their man is abusive....

As men we are supposed to get "over it" and understand why a woman would do that


But it's a problem when we want a paternity test....

Women's self-interest good
Men's self-interest bad

 

[itsyoung!!]

Swab lil breh mouth in secret

If you signed the birth certificate thats irrelevant in some cases

 

[ExodusNirvana]

Women need to get over it. Any man not testing his children is a fool.

If you want to blame anyone, blame the women that knowingly force men to raise kids that aren't theirs.

This

Why are we pretending this isn't a thing??

Even Kerry Washington didn't know that her father wasn't her biological father until recently. And her Mom wasn't even thotting, she was conceived via sperm donor.

That's just one example. The more typical examples are people having a fight, the woman fukking someone else, and lacking the accountability to either use protection, get an abortion, or inform the man that there's a possibility that the child is not his.

My homie literally went through that with one of his exes and the entire pregnancy he knew it was a possibility. Kid was born and got tested and he wasn't the father and it crushed him and of course ended the relationship.

 

[Peak]

She running GAME on women raised simps and matriarchal vanguards who probably agree with this BULLshyt

Had a girl i work with say exactly the same thing. Thing is, if I even have to ask you may as well consider the relationship over as to get to that point I already have serious doubts about you.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Now you’re a single mom

 

[Pseudonym]

Should be mandatory for health reasons

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Easy way to nip this in the bud is make this a conversation well before y'all that serious, stressing it was something you swore you'd do well before you met her just off the strength of seeing what friends went through.

Then it's not about her or y'all, just something you promised yourself and if she rocks with you it wouldn't be an issue.

Hit her with the ultimatum before she does it to you.

Then when you do make sure, y'all got a road back to each other even if she gets in a snit.

Or make it federally mandatory

 

[MarcP]

Make your child's life harder to prove a point brehettes

 

[Devilinurear]

She running GAME on women raised simps and matriarchal vanguards who probably agree with this BULLshyt

She got a point the relationship is done if I question the paternity.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

You know we like to clown passportbrehs,

But im starting to think just one flight can be life changing

 

[Big Boss]

This should be automatically done when the child is born, by the hospital. I don’t get why this is not a thing.

Facts

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Men just need to do better. We have no say over a woman's body, we have no say over child support, we have no say on testing.

It's 100% in our control to simply choose better. That's the only thing we got

 

[Devilinurear]

Men just need to do better. We have no say over a woman's body, we have no say over child support, we have no say on testing.

It's 100% in our control to simply choose better. That's the only thing we got

I guess this applies to dudes who don't trust there women.

 

[dh86]

The father can take the baby for ‘quality time’ and get the test whenever he wants and she would never know. What a pointless post/thread

 

[Emoryal]

She got a point the relationship is done if I question the paternity.

Then it should be done at any hint of questioning a lie or potential infidelity?