If a woman openly admits she got trauma, ptsd= instant turnoff??

[Bossino]

Y'all some demons fr

Just saying, if a woman doesn't have non sexual value (a good personality) while vibing with/being compatible with you, or can't put you on financially or to other hoes, what's her purpose outside of sex. And if she's not attractive enough to fukk, and or doesn't find you attractive enough to fukk she might as well be dead.

Too many so called "men" be giddy at being in the company of women they can't/won't/shouldn't fukk or consider for a relationship.

If the woman is neither of the bolded she's really a waste of space, and best believe women see the bulk of men the same way, unless you placating/entertaining/simping them, but even then you're just resources

 

[Thavoiceofthevoiceless]

No it’s a plus. If she’s used to domestic violence then I know she’ll never burn the roast or let me come home to a dirty house.

Fisher is that you or is this someone else? lol

 

[General Mills]

Ma’am. The world does not owe you understanding

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

The majority of people out here have some form of trauma, pstd including posters on this site, so it’s hilarious that it’s a turnoff considering women could say the exact same thing

If you insist otherwise, look at alot of the threads and comments made about women on this site and tell me that there isn’t some form of trauma or ptsd going on.

This hilarious
Because regardless of gender


It is a MAJOR RED FLAG

if u have trauma u need extensive therapy from a professional


Not a untrained ass spouse


Imagine trying to shame someone into being a spouse and trauma therapist


fukking pathetic

 

[MVike28]

Run fast

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Depends on what it is. If she’s dealing with it, cool. Otherwise

 

[GhettoTeK]

It’s not a turnoff but I’m also not a professional whose dealing with that

So it’s essentially bushes

Agree. As an adult you’re responsible for seeking treatment

 

[Who Not How]

The majority of people out here have some form of trauma, pstd including posters on this site, so it’s hilarious that it’s a turnoff considering women could say the exact same thing

If you insist otherwise, look at alot of the threads and comments made about women on this site and tell me that there isn’t some form of trauma or ptsd going on.

G Herbo had an album called" PTSD" lmao. A lot of Black men have trauma too but I guess women just suppose to accept us while we don't accept them for it lol.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Maaaaaan, let me tell you. That shyt aint for the faint of hearts. Just leave her alone.

 

[FeverPitch2]

They play on your sympathy and use their "trauma" as their get out of jail free card when they do intentionally out of pocket shyt.
That video got more red flags than a Cash Money record release party.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

G Herbo had an album called" PTSD" lmao. A lot of Black men have trauma too but I guess women just suppose to accept us while we don't accept them for it lol.

Or


Just maybe
As an adult u should seek therapy
And get it resolved or at least in control before you seek a relationship

 

[Who Not How]

Or


Just maybe
As an adult u should seek therapy
And get it resolved or at least in control before you seek a relationship

Of course. I didn't watch the video in the OP but it sounds like an extreme example so common sense should kick in that you shouldn't date someone still dealing with demons 24/7. It's not even thread worthy to post a woman who is obviously still traumatizing herself and looking for sympathy.

 

[Diondon]

I came in here to say exactly this. And if and when a woman does say that, it's a woe is me party of men need safe spaces, men don't have anyone to be vulnerable with, men's mental health matters too etc. It's so wild to me how people constantly want what they're not willing to give

I'm pretty sure professional therapy is recommended
Not dragging another innocent party down with a relationship they're not prepared for

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Depends on the situation. I have trauma. And I'm very honest with myself about it and my desire to heal from that. If she is open and aware of her trauma and trying to heal, I can accept that. What I will not accept is denial and/or destructive behavior because of trauma. We moving up over here, not staying in the same place.

 

[Heafcliffe]

I'd like to say that I'd make an attempt but I've been in these trenches before and...

Not sure I would be able to venture down that path again. Plus, I wouldn't want to contribute to the problem.

Honest answer, b.