I will never accept modern flamboyant gay people

[Tommy Knocks]

Try see this thing from my point of view for a second

I think with the flamboyant gays, like being ratchet it's a personal choice, so the same way a hood chick decides to put 3000 rainbow colors of weave in her head and act obnoxious, the same way a gay man decides to go out of his way to behave outlandish, I honestly don't believe his being gay is what makes him act so over the top, it's his personality.

Now when a gay man does things which are just plain extra and attention seeking which have nothing to do with his sexuality (I know calm normal gay dudes) can we attribute that with his homosexuality or simply him being annoying ?

Think of hood rat ratchet girls, the fact that they are so ratchet is stupidly attributed as a racial characteristic, but we both know that ratchets are far from what black people in say....an African village are like.

I can't stand over the top flambouyant extra in your face gay men, the same way I can't stand loud red necks or hood rat chicks who act a fool, I like to think I am only irked by one part of the demographic not the whole demographic.......

see what I mean ?

ah ok. I see what you're saying now.

I think here's where we differ a little, I think some have control over it, like that dude wearing the heels on the first page, for whatever reason he chooses to wear heels, why he does, is his own expression, do I think it's swaggin, fukk no lol, does it bother me, not really cause he's not actually bothering me, it's a free country, but at the same time, I think some, like them fem ones that walk all fem that have a little bit of sugar in their swagger can't control it. I can't really blame the nikka for liking pink and wanting to flame out, wear lip gloss and shyt, it's just who he is. I dont think they can control that lisp and limp hand believe it or not. like trannies, that's just who they are. I'm not apart of their community, but they're entitled to have one. I can tolerate it to the point where I think they deserve rights.

besides I'd rather be able ID one. it's the down low ones that hide it, then snake their way around that bother me. You think dude coo, hetero, next thing you know, you gotta nikka brushing up on your ass like

 

[Tommy Knocks]

i don't have your words saved

i dont need to prove to you what "you" fukking said


but u a self hating hoe ass soft nikka

fukk u and ya family

you dont need to have them saved to do a quick search. should be easy considering the many I have, no?

fukk me and my fam, hey stop hurting my feelings, you seem upset. push P to punch my nikka.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

hey stop hurting my feelings, you seem upset. push P to punch my nikka.

white boy humor

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Flamboyant gays fall into the same category as the rest of the attention whoring people in the world. They are annoying as fukk, but ultimately harmless.

Sexual orientation notwithstanding, any person runnin around with the "look at me" attitude doesn't get any respect from me

 

[Theraflu]

Flamboyant gays fall into the same category as the rest of the attention whoring people in the world. They are annoying as fukk, but ultimately harmless.

Sexual orientation notwithstanding, any person runnin around with the "look at me" attitude doesn't get any respect from me

Realest shyt.

With the hoodrat with orange, purple weave shouting at the top of her voice down the street to the gay dude squeaking around to anyone whose oTT all them should stay away from me

 

[MeachTheMonster]

And the gay people-black people comparisions y'all are making.

 

[Juanito]

This kinda shyt doesn't bother me that much tbh. I for one, have never had any issues with the gays. I've always been open to all different types of people. I can see why it bothers some people but to just outright hate them makes no sense to me. I don't see why it should affect any of our lives unless they begin to target you specifically.

I also get why some people try to compare blacks and gays, given the struggle we've both been through in this country. If anything I would think this would make black people a little more compassionate to those who know hardship like we once faced. I just don't see a reason for even a flamboyant gay dude to bother you unless he's tryna give you that thang. For me it's like religion(I'm atheist, or whatever) I don't hate christians or even overly religious people in fact some of my friends are avid church goers. But when you throw GOD in my face all the time and try to force that shyt upon me, then we have a problem.

I have a gay relative or two so maybe it's a little different for me. Idk if some of you have never been around gays before. I've seen the flamboyant ones and it doesn't bother me if they say hi or start up a conversation with me. You just can't think that they automatically want to fukk you just because you're a guy. But like I said maybe its different for some of you, it might vary depending on where you live. I live in Southern Cali which seems to be very tolerant of gays, and I've never been ignorant(not saying that ppl with different opinions are) I guess I just try to understand where they're coming from. At the end of the day I'm secure with myself enough to no let this shyt bother me.

 

[re'up]

No different the any extreme of any type, no more obnoxious or difficult then dealing with a really arrogant person, or extremely pushy religious person, a really bytchy and retarded women, whatever.

 

[Kid McNamara]

And the gay people-black people comparisions y'all are making.

Normally I would agree with you but...you're wrong. Comparing the stereotypes and criticisms applied to two groups of people is not the same as comparing the two groups, or their respective struggles.

Of course the way blacks have caught hell in America is unique and without rival, but we aren't necessarily discussing that. We are comparing the ways in which folks attempt to justify their bigotry:

"I'm by the pool and my wonderful friends look up from the papers and they tell me they ought to take the schvartzes and line 'em up and shoot 'em. And I'm the one who has to remind them that's what Hitler did to the Jews. And you know what they tell me, as an answer? 'How can you compare schvartzes to Jews?'"
- Philip Roth, American Pastoral

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Normally I would agree with you but...you're wrong. Comparing the stereotypes and criticisms applied to two groups of people is not the same as comparing the two groups, or their respective struggles.

Of course the way blacks have caught hell in America is unique and without rival, but we aren't necessarily discussing that. We are comparing the ways in which folks attempt to justify their bigotry:

"I'm by the pool and my wonderful friends look up from the papers and they tell me they ought to take the schvartzes and line 'em up and shoot 'em. And I'm the one who has to remind them that's what Hitler did to the Jews. And you know what they tell me, as an answer? 'How can you compare schvartzes to Jews?'"
- Philip Roth, American Pastoral

The problem is, bigotry is only one facet of the history of blacks in America. The entire story is not one that can be compared to the history of homosexuals in America. So by taking this one small part, and using the entire issue to draw comparisons, you disrespect the people who have truly gone through systematic hate and racism.

If bigotry is the topic, there are plenty of other examples you could use, that don't carry all of the implications of the black experience.

 

[ThaRealness]

so this is how young folks grow into conservatives. interesting. replace flamboyant gay with a white person saying, "hood blacks" and check out how bad it sounds. youre not going to find opposition here however, the black community has a long way to go as far as accepting all people (despite wanting to be accepted themselves).

I grew up in Hollywood, I dont recall anything being 'forced' on to me. I never got how people could say something was forced. The media is forcing us too....no nikka change the channel. Like when white nationalist say 'the media is forcing interracial dating. what. . People can never hold themselves responsible for their negative feelings. "I dont like interracial relationships and gays, the media keeps forcing it on to me"

personally, I dont have a problem with flamers, we had them in highschool and they never bothered me, I never bothered them. Im not a fan of crack whores, so when I see them, I dont give them eye contact and walk past, but the last thing Im going to do is hate or deny someones existence. I have the option of blocking it from my life and mind. its easy to ignore. people are just too weak minded to do so. just like people are too weak minded to go against the grain or be leaders instead of followers, or original instead copy cats or be the one guy in the crowd that doesnt agree with the rest.

ps. Not directed toward anyone, just in general.

This is true. The media pushes gay marriage... nothing else. These dudes convince themselves that the media is pushing every facet of gay culture to validate their own negative feelings

 

[FrederickDouglas]

Normally I would agree with you but...you're wrong. Comparing the stereotypes and criticisms applied to two groups of people is not the same as comparing the two groups, or their respective struggles.

Of course the way blacks have caught hell in America is unique and without rival, but we aren't necessarily discussing that. We are comparing the ways in which folks attempt to justify their bigotry:

"I'm by the pool and my wonderful friends look up from the papers and they tell me they ought to take the schvartzes and line 'em up and shoot 'em. And I'm the one who has to remind them that's what Hitler did to the Jews. And you know what they tell me, as an answer? 'How can you compare schvartzes to Jews?'"
- Philip Roth, American Pastoral

Okay, but say you want to compare the discrimination that pedophiles or zoophiles face to the discrimination homosexuals face.

You'll have a bunch of people saying "Homosexuality and beastiality/pedophilia are not comparable" and they'll start talking about consent and perversion etc.

But if comparing the criticisms both groups receive is NOT the same as comparing the groups, what's wrong with comparing the criticism homosexuals receive to the criticism other people receive who have sexual feelings outside the realm of normality?

Regardless of the difference, homosexuality seems to me to be more comparable to taboo sexual acts as opposed to skin color.

 

[Luchini]

Being gay is as natural as being Black.

Stop using my brand name to promote hate.

being black is biological. you are born black. you can't be born gay. so no it is not as natural and no it is not the same

 

[Sad Bunny]

I agree. I prefer my gay men to be on the down low.

 

[dallastexas]

im pretty sure they can give a fuk what u think

in fact id bet money they beat ur ass in a fight