Im confused.... u dont want ur fat to go to ur lower region, but u want to look like the chick in ur OPI wasn't just speaking in terms of muscle. Wouldn't I gain fat when I gain muscle? And most of my fat goes to my lower region which I don't want.
I'm a size 12 and want to be a size 8. The love/hate relationship I have with my body shape is that I would need to lose between 25-30 lbs before I can even drop a pants size.
If u want to get down to a size 8 then just diet down till u are a size 6. While u diet down keep lifting to retain muscle... dont change ur routine and try not to go lower on weights x reps. Then once ur down to that size clean bulk back up to an 8.