"I took a major L getting married, I make 150k and I'm broke" - My bestfriend

[Standing on business]

I have no idea why men marry women whose salary doesn't complement theirs. The women should be able to pay her own car, shopping and eating out. Men love to take on that burden but always end up regretting it.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I was married for 2 years and I filed for divorce. My exwife was about 100K in debt...off a BA and she is a Special Ed teacher.

I had no debt, never ever even held a bank account with her and she had bad credit to boot...seriously bad. Not to mention the lack of emotional awareness and other issues she had.

I made a mistake marrying that woman but I got out quick...would I marry again? It's really hard to say because it's one of my worst fears that I am going to run into the Darth Vader of T&A and she is going to lock me down in love...but right now at 38...I wake up every morning with 2 funky ass cats, no kids, no wife, no gf...and I am honestly happy but a small part of me longs to have a good woman with some sweet pussi holding me down with a ring on her finger.

Marriage is bills, credit, work, health problems, struggle, 401k, and family issues but you know if you find the right woman or man whom you can make a great marriage with then what I mentioned really isn't shyt.

breh....what do you want?

and is marriage necessary to have it?

if not....act accordingly.....

this shyt really isnt that hard....

im 42 and divorced....twice....my problem is that i never really knew what i wanted....so i floated and settled...never again....

figure out what you want...and a woman thats with it will come along eventually

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I have no idea why men marry women whose salary doesn't complete theirs. The women should be able to pay her own car, shopping and eating out. Men love to take on that burden but always end up regretting it.

complete? what does that mean?

 

[King of Creampies]

breh....what do you want?

and is marriage necessary to have it?

if not....act accordingly.....

this shyt really isnt that hard....

im 42 and divorced....twice....my problem is that i never really knew what i wanted....so i floated and settled...never again....

figure out what you want...and a woman thats with it will come along eventually

That is what I am trying to figure out brother and you are 100 percent spot on.

 

[Dwolf]

Sounds like dude made poor life choices
Choice better women.

 

[ChatGPT-5]

TLDR. I really don't know why males make this thread but the GMB and MGTOW crew always get married after a few years and they find someone. Its literally a boyscott club that acts bitter until the first p*ssy gives them the time of day. show me someone in their late 40s that has taken all this bullshyt seriously and commands they are single. Ill wait. it never happens. its always people under 35 who throw up their arms because they're late bloomers, but you never seem to see people in their late 40s saying this stupid fukking shyt. thats because they end up with less desirable women because they just accept they too are less desirable and end up marrying and shutting the fukk up. who here is 50 following this MGTOW movement and have zero kids, and have never been married, its damn near nobody but a 5% few. the only people bitter here are the few that felt they should get more than they have, felt they should get pornstar hot because they're hot and should have been getting microsoft VP money, but didn't, so they lash out on some dumb shyt, and then realize their demise is walmart hot. so they get mad and try to make up fake movements that affect no one. LOL.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

That is what I am trying to figure out brother and you are 100 percent spot on.

you got your head on right....

too many people float through life never knowing what they want...

going through the motions...eating....fukking...watching tv...caring about bullshyt like sports and reality tv....and never taking time to think about what they want out of life....

i cant hate on them too much because i did it too...for a long time....not now though...life is short

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

TLDR. I really don't know why males make this thread but the GMB and MGTOW crew always get married after a few years and they find someone. Its literally a boyscott club that acts bitter until the first p*ssy gives them the time of day. show me someone in their late 40s that has taken all this bullshyt seriously and commands they are single. Ill wait. it never happens. its always people under 35 who throw up their arms because they're late bloomers, but you never seem to see people in their late 40s saying this stupid fukking shyt. thats because they end up with less desirable women because they just accept they too are less desirable and end up marrying and shutting the fukk up. who here is 50 following this MGTOW movement and have zero kids, and have never been married, its damn near nobody but a 5% few. the only people bitter here are the few that felt they should get more than they have, felt they should get pornstar hot because they're hot and should have been getting microsoft VP money, but didn't, so they lash out on some dumb shyt, and then realize their demise is walmart hot. so they get mad and try to make up fake movements that affect no one. LOL.

i know a couple cats in their 40s that have checked out on this shyt to an extent...but im in my 40s...most of you nikkas havent even lived yet....cats take these stories and run with it....

this is my advice to any man or woman in their 20s....

do not rush into commited relationships until you figure out who you are and what you want out of life....

 

[newworldafro]

Was talking to one of my best friends today. Met dude in 2007, we started in the IT field together making 40-50k. He was married then and I was ripping and running. We both have made good money since, he's had 2 kids, Ive been single for most part. So he's kind of lived vicariously thru me. I always send him pics of my chicks, cars and tell him stories. We both love cars. Had not saw my boy in about 5 years up until 2 weeks ago, when we hungout and had an AWESOME time. With him being married and living far away. Dude told me today....

"bruh you gave me life that day, I really needed that. . I'm not happy, i'm not living. We all were fed that be a good man, be a good family man BS, but never get married dude. If I would have known I was going to be making this type of money, I wouldve never got married. I took a major L getting married, I make 150k and I'm broke. Everything I do is for my family. Sacrifice after sacrifice, bill after bill. I make 150k and drive a compact car so my wife and kids can have it all. And they dont really appreciate me or my work and sacrifice. I have to beg my wife for sex and rarely get it. You going to be the same way if you get married."


I take this as a real wake up call. Dude always keep it real about how horrible marriage is, but today I heard what sounds like him giving up on it all. Kind of scared me str8.














I have a great girl, pretty, cooks and cleans, doesn't go out, stays home and do what I say for most part but......

GMB for Life!!!

What does the wife do?

My wife makes over 100k more than me and I make more than 100k. Marry the right one breh's.

What she do?

 

[010101]

no cuffs and only seeding up dimes with $$$$$$>>>>>>winwin*

 

[ChatGPT-5]

i know a couple cats in their 40s that have checked out on this shyt to an extent...but im in my 40s...most of you nikkas havent even lived yet....cats take these stories and run with it....

this is my advice to any man or woman in their 20s....

do not rush into commited relationships until you figure out who you are and what you want out of life....

1. ever been married?

2. do you have a kid?

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Sounds like your bro has no balls
He makes 150k and doesnt have to pay alimony or child support
With proper choices and not letting your wife spend up all his he should be able to live a comfortable lifestyle

 

[General Mills]

breh....what do you want?

and is marriage necessary to have it?

if not....act accordingly.....

this shyt really isnt that hard....

im 42 and divorced....twice....my problem is that i never really knew what i wanted....so i floated and settled...never again....

figure out what you want...and a woman thats with it will come along eventually

Same exact boat breh and you are exactly right.

 

[Atlrocafella]

If you're going go to marry, marry someone on equal or higher than you when it comes to finances. I'm not trying to finance any heauxs lifestyle after we break up, fukk THAT.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

lol your second thread about marriage today, op.

He's conflicted, sounds like he has a good woman at home but he scared to tie that knot