"I took a major L getting married, I make 150k and I'm broke" - My bestfriend

[AtomicUse]

My wife makes over 100k more than me and I make more than 100k. Marry the right one breh's.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

I was married for 2 years and I filed for divorce. My exwife was about 100K in debt...off a BA and she is a Special Ed teacher.

I had no debt, never ever even held a bank account with her and she had bad credit to boot...seriously bad. Not to mention the lack of emotional awareness and other issues she had.

I made a mistake marrying that woman but I got out quick...would I marry again? It's really hard to say because it's one of my worst fears that I am going to run into the Darth Vader of T&A and she is going to lock me down in love...but right now at 38...I wake up every morning with 2 funky ass cats, no kids, no wife, no gf...and I am honestly happy but a small part of me longs to have a good woman with some sweet pussi holding me down with a ring on her finger.

Marriage is bills, credit, work, health problems, struggle, 401k, and family issues but you know if you find the right woman or man whom you can make a great marriage with then what I mentioned really isn't shyt.

Your post made me think of this quote.

Realize that sleeping on a futon when you're 30 is not the worst thing. You know what's worse, sleeping in a king bed next to a wife you're not really in love with but for some reason you married, and you got a couple kids, and you got a job you hate. You'll be laying there fantasizing about sleeping on a futon. There's no risk when you go after a dream. There's a tremendous amount to risk to playing it safe.


Why can't you get a girlfriend tho?

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

so what happens if that lifestyle gets old? because it can and it will. what then?

You can settle down after you live ya life. Sounds like OP's friend got married young when he was just making 50K, started having kids and now that he makes good money, he can't even enjoy it and exercise his options.

That sucks. Shoulda waited.

A lifestyle can't get old if you never even lived it.

 

[Dad]

nikka sound weak as shyt. Resent your kids & beg for the box, brehs

Everything I do is for my family. Sacrifice after sacrifice, bill after bill. I make 150k and drive a compact car so my wife and kids can have it all. And they dont really appreciate me or my work and sacrifice. I have to beg my wife for sex and rarely get it.

 

[King of Creampies]

Your post made me think of this quote.

Realize that sleeping on a futon when you're 30 is not the worst thing. You know what's worse, sleeping in a king bed next to a wife you're not really in love with but for some reason you married, and you got a couple kids, and you got a job you hate. You'll be laying there fantasizing about sleeping on a futon. There's no risk when you go after a dream. There's a tremendous amount to risk to playing it safe.


Why can't you get a girlfriend tho?

I have no problem getting a female...but right now I have to ask myself "Is a woman and a relationship really what I need added to my life? for me it isn't and I am sitting myself down on the sidelines and just taking a long ass break.

Doesn't mean I won't hit some loose street booty thou.

Oh I did have a female...she just wanted to get married but she wasn't what and who I wanted to even try that with....for the 2nd time being that I was already divorced is all and yes...that quote rang true for me literally when I decided I need a divorce.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Same ones on this #GMB shyt will be here at 57 like .

False

 

[General Mills]

He also sounds hurt that nobody appreciates him and his sacrifices. It's tough man. Appreciation goes a long way.

This is what i got out of it.

At the end of the day a breh will sacrifice happily for his fam. Just give him some love ladies. Make him feel like a man. I hear this so many times. Getting taken for granted is the worst

 

[Dirty Mcdrawz]

sounds like poor life choices. I'm married, have a child, and make less money then him but i'm going to vancouver in june and possibly heading back to sydney for christmas for a family trip. tell your breh to get over himself and do better.

 

[Mr.bocario]

The worst part is when breh die, he won't have shyt to live his kids, but to beg the white man for a opportunity

 

[Diondon]

How old did he get married?

 

[Serious]

Same ones on this #GMB shyt will be here at 57 like .

I got nephews

 

[Henri Christophe]

I make 150k and I'm broke. Everything I do is for my family. Sacrifice after sacrifice, bill after bill. I make 150k and drive a compact car so my wife and kids can have it all. And they dont really appreciate me or my work and sacrifice

this is not what nikkas grind for!!


but that shyt is so real cause growing up, my pops seemed to feel this way... all that man did was work and barely got to enjoy the fruits of his labor....




Ima make sure to secure the bag first, fukk that lifestyle

 

[Red Shield]

Remember few years back, me and one of my brehs were talking. The conversation hit marriage/children and dude said if he had to do it over again... he wouldn't have got married. I tried to warn him years before...

Dude had a nice ass orange car and was making 20bucks a hour in the burgh too

 

[Stir Fry]

sounds like poor life choices. I'm married, have a child, and make less money then him but i'm going to vancouver in june and possibly heading back to sydney for christmas for a family trip. tell your breh to get over himself and do better.

I just got back from a family trip to LA, mostly on my wife's dime, because I got laid off recently. We all had a great time, and seeing my daughter enjoy herself was better than anything I ever experienced when I was single. I'm betting a majority of failed marriages are a result of one party or the other, marrying for the wrong reasons.

 

[Blessings]

sounds like poor life choices. I'm married, have a child, and make less money then him but i'm going to vancouver in june and possibly heading back to sydney for christmas for a family trip. tell your breh to get over himself and do better.

lmaooooooooooo you came up