I think im gonna cheat on him for my birthday

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Why'd u leave your ex? Are u only staying with your current dude and trying to work it out because of the kid? How severe is the physical abuse?
 

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Some of you may already know of my relationship woes but dammit I need some excitement in my life.im about to be 23 feeling and living like an old ass lady whos best years are behind them.

i let this nikka suck the life outta me.ive been faithful the whole time we been together but that shyt aint got me nowhere.im still being treated like an option or sideline thot.i almost never ask the man for shyt,i got my own money,raising our son to my best abilities,cook and clean after a long busy day at work,give him sex whenever he wants,babysit his bad ass daughter all the time.im not out here always running the streets,partying,leaving my baby wit any n everybody.

Ive been to good to this man even with the basic lackluster sex,not eating my p*ssy right or at all(havent came from head in 3yrs,he dont even try)....not wanting to go out and do anything..dinner,movie..nothing.being stingy and tight with his money,getting attitudes if i do ask ..when i barely ask for anything.

The lack of communication and understanding creating unnecessary agruments all the time...physical violence

I feel as though he dont respect or value me as his woman.like im not good enough and hes said this a couple times.its crazy because i should feel like that because i do all the things a woman should do for their man,household and family but he treat me like hes settling and putting up with me.his personality aint shyt and hes always negative ass hell.if he dont have somebody on the side he sure as hell act like it but i swear i wouldn't give a fukk at this point. just give me more reason to do what i want to.im all for an open relationship now .do you and protect yourself

Ima go fukk my ex this weekend.he made me feel good in more ways than one.we have a bond and connection that i dont have with my man.they got completely opposite personality.thats why i still talk to him to this day.we dont have sex but them convos be everyrhing.i miss being to talk to my man about anything no matter what topic.i can be feeling so down and out and he'll make me feel better.that a$$hole will make me feel even worse

Dude is way to secretive and evasive.he not comfortable enough to talk about shyt.thats why we never got to know each other on a deeper level.i been knew we are not meant for each other but i keep tryna make it work.

I know this a trainwreck and im working on leaving for good but for now..i feel like i deserve to feel special.its my birthday and i havent had a good time in a long time and i know who will pull out all the stops to make sure i have a ball and its not the man who ive been faithful to all this time.im fina make him mines for the weekend and hes gonna give me everything i been missing

I need this yall.dont judge me

I think im gonna cheat on him for my birthday

OP has a smart dude.
He needs to get far away from this c*nt before his dikk falls off fukking with her.

This bytch isn't even 23 yet, coniving on ways to pass her p*ssy around behind her partners' back.

A disease factory in the making. :scust:
 

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I have little sympathy for women that lay with men and have their children yet were never in love with them in the 1st place.

People having kids with people they aren't truly in love with boggles my mind.

I'm so glad I'm Childless. Could never imagine having a child with someone that I can barely tolerate as a person

With that said. Break up with dude 1st and then fuk your ex.

If you cheat 1st then try to breakup it puts all blame on you as to why the relationship did not work - at least in the eyes of other people.
 

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Sounds like he's a terrible BF so why you still with him? Just leave. No need to cheat, nobody deserves that. Break it off and hit your ex up...but only as a friend with benefits/sex buddy. I'm guessing you broke up with him for a reason, you don't want to go back and realize nothing really changed.
 

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Well, sounds like you're a girl dealing with a boy. in other words, you and him both need to grow up. when kids try to handle adult shyt, this is what happens. even the way you talk about your issue sounds like someone who is still in high school.
 
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Im going to leave in the new year.its not that simple when u live with them.im not going back to my moms house because last time i left him and went there we had an altercation.im looking for an apartment for me and my sister now.im working on it.it wont happen overnight tho.

Im dumb on all levels pertaining to this man.
I shouldnt have never moved in with him in the first place knowing our history but i made myself believe it would actually work.that we'd be a happy family:mjcry:

Ive always been against cheating no matter the situations.i was yelling just leave too but man i just wana put myself first for a change.his selfish ass never had that problem.if u wana treat me like a thot and not the woman u claim youre in love with and committed too then wats the point of being faithful and doing daily wifely duties just to be constantly disrespected.fukk that and fukk him.i been checked out on that ass and started planning my escape a while ago and heoneenoit..too busy talking that proud macho shyt.he will learn soon enough tho:francis:
 
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Some of you may already know of my relationship woes but dammit I need some excitement in my life.im about to be 23 feeling and living like an old ass lady whos best years are behind them.

i let this nikka suck the life outta me.ive been faithful the whole time we been together but that shyt aint got me nowhere.im still being treated like an option or sideline thot.i almost never ask the man for shyt,i got my own money,raising our son to my best abilities,cook and clean after a long busy day at work,give him sex whenever he wants,babysit his bad ass daughter all the time.im not out here always running the streets,partying,leaving my baby wit any n everybody.

Ive been to good to this man even with the basic lackluster sex,not eating my p*ssy right or at all(havent came from head in 3yrs,he dont even try)....not wanting to go out and do anything..dinner,movie..nothing.being stingy and tight with his money,getting attitudes if i do ask ..when i barely ask for anything.

The lack of communication and understanding creating unnecessary agruments all the time...physical violence

I feel as though he dont respect or value me as his woman.like im not good enough and hes said this a couple times.its crazy because i should feel like that because i do all the things a woman should do for their man,household and family but he treat me like hes settling and putting up with me.his personality aint shyt and hes always negative ass hell.if he dont have somebody on the side he sure as hell act like it but i swear i wouldn't give a fukk at this point. just give me more reason to do what i want to.im all for an open relationship now .do you and protect yourself

Ima go fukk my ex this weekend.he made me feel good in more ways than one.we have a bond and connection that i dont have with my man.they got completely opposite personality.thats why i still talk to him to this day.we dont have sex but them convos be everyrhing.i miss being to talk to my man about anything no matter what topic.i can be feeling so down and out and he'll make me feel better.that a$$hole will make me feel even worse

Dude is way to secretive and evasive.he not comfortable enough to talk about shyt.thats why we never got to know each other on a deeper level.i been knew we are not meant for each other but i keep tryna make it work.

I know this a trainwreck and im working on leaving for good but for now..i feel like i deserve to feel special.its my birthday and i havent had a good time in a long time and i know who will pull out all the stops to make sure i have a ball and its not the man who ive been faithful to all this time.im fina make him mines for the weekend and hes gonna give me everything i been missing

I need this yall.dont judge me
Just sent this to yo nikka on fb keep your page public so I can watch the fukkery unfold
 

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Is this the same dumb bytch complaining about the man putting a roof over her head and supporting their child? :camby:

bytch you think you can do better go do it. But get your shyt and go first :stopitslime:
 
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I think im gonna cheat on him for my birthday

OP has a smart dude.
He needs to get far away from this c*nt before his dikk falls off fukking with her.

This bytch isn't even 23 yet, coniving on ways to pass her p*ssy around behind her partners' back.

A disease factory in the making. :scust:
fukk him:yeshrug: and im buying hella condoms and im gonna leave my purse open to make sure their visible:lolbron:

Thots winning out here.getting wined n dined while hopping from one dikk to the next.they getting what they want outta these nikkas without a single ounce of loyalty.im seeing it first hand all the time.maybe i need to be a savage to get sum sorta respect or maybe im just with and faithful to the wrong nikka
:francis::mjcry:i refuse to waste another fukking year of my early 20's being tied up with a mf who dont even appreciate me:yeshrug:
 

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fukk him:yeshrug: and im buying hella condoms and im gonna leave my purse open to make sure their visible:lolbron:

Thots winning out here.getting wined n dined while hopping from one dikk to the next.they getting what they want outta these nikkas without a single ounce of loyalty.im seeing it first hand all the time.maybe i need to be a savage to get sum sorta respect or maybe im just with and faithful to the wrong nikka
:francis::mjcry:i refuse to waste another fukking year of my early 20's being tied up with a mf who dont even appreciate me:yeshrug:

:mjgrin:
 
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