I think im gonna cheat on him for my birthday

Black Magisterialness

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Some of you may already know of my relationship woes but dammit I need some excitement in my life.im about to be 23 feeling and living like an old ass lady whos best years are behind them.

i let this nikka suck the life outta me.ive been faithful the whole time we been together but that shyt aint got me nowhere.im still being treated like an option or sideline thot.i almost never ask the man for shyt,i got my own money,raising our son to my best abilities,cook and clean after a long busy day at work,give him sex whenever he wants,babysit his bad ass daughter all the time.im not out here always running the streets,partying,leaving my baby wit any n everybody.

Ive been to good to this man even with the basic lackluster sex,not eating my p*ssy right or at all(havent came from head in 3yrs,he dont even try)....not wanting to go out and do anything..dinner,movie..nothing.being stingy and tight with his money,getting attitudes if i do ask ..when i barely ask for anything.

The lack of communication and understanding creating unnecessary agruments all the time...physical violence

I feel as though he dont respect or value me as his woman.like im not good enough and hes said this a couple times.its crazy because i should feel like that because i do all the things a woman should do for their man,household and family but he treat me like hes settling and putting up with me.his personality aint shyt and hes always negative ass hell.if he dont have somebody on the side he sure as hell act like it but i swear i wouldn't give a fukk at this point. just give me more reason to do what i want to.im all for an open relationship now .do you and protect yourself

Ima go fukk my ex this weekend.he made me feel good in more ways than one.we have a bond and connection that i dont have with my man.they got completely opposite personality.thats why i still talk to him to this day.we dont have sex but them convos be everyrhing.i miss being to talk to my man about anything no matter what topic.i can be feeling so down and out and he'll make me feel better.that a$$hole will make me feel even worse

Dude is way to secretive and evasive.he not comfortable enough to talk about shyt.thats why we never got to know each other on a deeper level.i been knew we are not meant for each other but i keep tryna make it work.

I know this a trainwreck and im working on leaving for good but for now..i feel like i deserve to feel special.its my birthday and i havent had a good time in a long time and i know who will pull out all the stops to make sure i have a ball and its not the man who ive been faithful to all this time.im fina make him mines for the weekend and hes gonna give me everything i been missing

I need this yall.dont judge me

Stop being a p*ssy and have the maturity to break up. Cheating just makes you just as "ain't shyt" and immature as dude....doing all this tit for tat.

If you got a nikka who is ready to bust it down...you having or not having a man isn't going to change that. Break up with dude.

Literally, cheating on someone throws ALLLLLL the shyt you were complaning about out the window. Because people will always have "but you cheated though..."

Ya'll need to stop letting rap chicks and Insecure make ya'll thing this cheating shyt is the wave..its not. You'd basically be a shyt individual who deserves NONE of the happiness you crave if you can't do no simple shyt like break up with someone.
 

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Didn't this nikka choke you out and you stabbed him or some shyt? Idk if you're that chick :stopitslime:
you been should've left the nikka
 

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You know dude ain't shyt but you had a baby by him?

This dude already had a daughter when you met him, what his baby momma say about him? I doubt she said he was a good man that works hard and always does his best.

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You really should up and leave him, but if he's as foul as you say do what you do, just know if he finds out he may drag that ass, you say he's already physically violent, you really shouldn't put yourself even more at risk by cheating
 

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Talk about what you do to earn this behavior.
Rationing dikk game is like you withholding p*ssy. I bet you did when you were popping.
Next time, leave persistent nikkas alone. You're too young in the mind and dude gives no fukks about you. Best believe he's fukking another bytch correctly. It ain't all your fault, though...You tried and it wasn't good enough. He's a garbage nikka and you love him. I used to be trash like him, I know how it's gonna end.
Leave now and keep the Child Support Enforcement Agency out of y'all business...before this idiot ends up killing you for no reason, or you see some shyt that makes your vision go red. Ever pictured hitting him with a car the next time he calls you bytch? My ex did, got a new nikka...and I was still fukking...she's an idiot. Don't be stupid. It's time for you to break the lease and find somewhere new to stay shawwwttyyy.


Y'all date the most violent broads...

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I'm frightened now...
 
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