I think im gonna cheat on him for my birthday

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I can't stand a fake ass "boss bytch"

Pretending like you bout that life when really you just struggling for attention and respect :deadmanny: shyt is pathetic. About to end up like Issa.
When have i ever claimed to be a boss and bout that life..watever life that is and yes its pathetic..i never denied the fukked up situation im in and how i got here.and trust me i gets plenty respect and attention but if it not coming from my man..i appreciate it but its not that important to me...the exact point of this thread.im very self aware of my fukk ups and chose to share it with u all.i aint on here or nowhere else irl trying to stunt and be something im not.and i dont know who the fukk issa is.Try again shady pants:rudy::camby:
 

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Some of you may already know of my relationship woes but dammit I need some excitement in my life.im about to be 23 feeling and living like an old ass lady whos best years are behind them.

i let this nikka suck the life outta me.ive been faithful the whole time we been together but that shyt aint got me nowhere.im still being treated like an option or sideline thot.i almost never ask the man for shyt,i got my own money,raising our son to my best abilities,cook and clean after a long busy day at work,give him sex whenever he wants,babysit his bad ass daughter all the time.im not out here always running the streets,partying,leaving my baby wit any n everybody.

Ive been to good to this man even with the basic lackluster sex,not eating my p*ssy right or at all(havent came from head in 3yrs,he dont even try)....not wanting to go out and do anything..dinner,movie..nothing.being stingy and tight with his money,getting attitudes if i do ask ..when i barely ask for anything.

The lack of communication and understanding creating unnecessary agruments all the time...physical violence

I feel as though he dont respect or value me as his woman.like im not good enough and hes said this a couple times.its crazy because i should feel like that because i do all the things a woman should do for their man,household and family but he treat me like hes settling and putting up with me.his personality aint shyt and hes always negative ass hell.if he dont have somebody on the side he sure as hell act like it but i swear i wouldn't give a fukk at this point. just give me more reason to do what i want to.im all for an open relationship now .do you and protect yourself

Ima go fukk my ex this weekend.he made me feel good in more ways than one.we have a bond and connection that i dont have with my man.they got completely opposite personality.thats why i still talk to him to this day.we dont have sex but them convos be everyrhing.i miss being to talk to my man about anything no matter what topic.i can be feeling so down and out and he'll make me feel better.that a$$hole will make me feel even worse

Dude is way to secretive and evasive.he not comfortable enough to talk about shyt.thats why we never got to know each other on a deeper level.i been knew we are not meant for each other but i keep tryna make it work.

I know this a trainwreck and im working on leaving for good but for now..i feel like i deserve to feel special.its my birthday and i havent had a good time in a long time and i know who will pull out all the stops to make sure i have a ball and its not the man who ive been faithful to all this time.im fina make him mines for the weekend and hes gonna give me everything i been missing

I need this yall.dont judge me

Why cheat? Just break up.
 

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So you guys have had physical violence in your relationship and the only rational thing you come up with is to cheat on him as a birthday gif..
R.I.P.
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When have i ever claimed to be a boss and bout that life..watever life that is and yes its pathetic..i never denied the fukked up situation im in and how i got here.and trust me i gets plenty respect and attention but if it not coming from my man..i appreciate it but its not that important to me...the exact point of this thread.im very self aware of my fukk ups and chose to share it with u all.i aint on here or nowhere else irl trying to stunt and be something im not.and i dont know who the fukk issa is.Try again shady pants:rudy::camby:

So you admit that you are weak and pathetic yet your solution is to act even more pathetic? That man doesn't want you. Why don't to get some self respect and move on. When dude finds out he's just going upside your goofy ass head.
 
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I'm completely sober. Nothing worse than someone groveling and acting out for attention. OP just sounds like a bucket head.
How the fukk am i acting out:mindblown:All this trolling and baiting on this site and im acting out for attention:mjlol:....of a bunch of fuxking strangers:mjlol:.i do this shyt to pass time and get interesting helpful and funny ass opinions and feedback.u tryna reprimand me for sharing my real life experiences n relationships.wat the fukk is this site for then??everything i post on this mf is 100 percent real shyt im actually goin thru.good or bad.if you dont like the topic or context stay the fukk out my thread.i aint mad cuz i put it out there:hubie:but gtfoh and stop tryna flex on a brehette.you doin too much.you the one trying to hard hun.u just went in:pachaha:
 

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What in that post could possibly remind you of me?
"Thots winning out here.getting wined n dined while hopping from one dikk to the next.they getting what they want outta these nikkas without a single ounce of loyalty.im seeing it first hand all the time.maybe i need to be a savage to get sum sorta respect "
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seemed like something you would say when you get upset on here even if you don't mean it
 

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I think im gonna cheat on him for my birthday

OP has a smart dude.
He needs to get far away from this c*nt before his dikk falls off fukking with her.

This bytch isn't even 23 yet, coniving on ways to pass her p*ssy around behind her partners' back.

A disease factory in the making. :scust:

her dude is foul as fukk too, I don't advocate for cheating but can you blame her, she really should break up with him first, but shyt the whole situation is bad
 

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I honestly don't believe this story. But regardless cheating will never not be pointless and stupid to me. If you get to a point in your relationship where you are seriously okay with risking it enough to be with someone else, leave. And the fact that its described as such a toxic situation is even more reason.
 
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So you admit that you are weak and pathetic yet your solution is to act even more pathetic? That man doesn't want you. Why don't to get some self respect and move on. When dude finds out he's just going upside your goofy ass head.
Whats my solution.to just cheat??.did u actually read or u rushed in here with the title evident ammo to:bustback:
 

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How the fukk am i acting out:mindblown:All this trolling and baiting on this site and im acting out for attention:mjlol:....of a bunch of fuxking strangers:mjlol:.i do this shyt to pass time and get interesting helpful and funny ass opinions and feedback.u tryna reprimand me for sharing my real life experiences n relationships.wat the fukk is this site for then??everything i post on this mf is 100 percent real shyt im actually goin thru.good or bad.if you dont like the topic or context stay the fukk out my thread.i aint mad cuz i put it out there:hubie:but gtfoh and stop tryna flex on a brehette.you doin too much.you the one trying to hard hun.u just went in:pachaha:

I was talking about his attention not the forums.

How am I reprimanding you? I'm just telling you that you sound like an idiot. You want daps and kudos because you have no respect for yourself? If you don't wanna hear what people have to say then don't post your business. You are stupid and you need to do better. You are playing ya self and then get mad when people give you feedback. What did you expect when you made this thread?

How am I flexing on you? I just pointed out the obvious. You're a bucket head.
 

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Bruh she made a thread months ago on how she was in jail for stabbing this nikka. They are both abusive.

Omg.

OP needs to leave and break up with dude. Once you start stabbing your man you need to let it be and just move on. I was 23 and stabbed my man at the time, realized he wasn't bringing out the best in me but the worst and left. If this is the guy you have a kid with, I feel bad for your child growing up in such dysfunction. You think you're a grown woman but mentally you're not. Smarten up for the sake of your child.
 
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