I think all this Manosphere redpill shyt is starting to take control over some of you guys. I’m concerned!

NatiboyB

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That's not the case with the majority of topics on this site around the subject and even you know that. Some posters will turn their experiences about the matter into unhealthiness and as if it speaks for everyone as a whole.

It’s always “those” people no matter what the subject is to include sports. But the facts seem to remain that dudes largely are accepting of standards and preferences but constantly shamed for just about anything that men generally have preferred. This society has went too far left.
 

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The problem I find most with the red pill/manosphere talk on this site is that OP and others will pull random ass tweets from social media and use it to help run with the narrative that that's how things actually are out here instead of acknowledging that it's only a certain segment of the population.

The topics and comments quickly turn toxic and unhealthy instead of open dialogue which is what it should be.
Aint that what happens with every divisive topic here ? Lol

Like dudes be finding tweets with 5 likes about some random woman , and then dudes be going back and forth saying how all women are the same
 

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That's not the case with the majority of topics on this site around the subject and even you know that. Some posters will turn their experiences about the matter into unhealthiness and as if it speaks for everyone as a whole.
The crazy thing is that they ain't even talking from their own experience lol but from the experience of some tweets or 20 second tik tok.
 

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Honestly the red pill stuff is what most folks need. If people have a problem with red pill talking points I’m going to need you to actually say what it is you have an issue with. I’m trying to get to the why. Because none of this red pill stuff is new. I was receiving red pill advice before I knew it was a pill. It seems as if the older brothers have been on the red pill tip.

My theory is that the younger generation will embrace the red pill and move their attention accordingly and this will cause western women to either change or start losing in the dating game to women from overseas (more traditional areas). The fact is men put in work and stayed loyal to areas due to having families to raise and embracing the sacrifice to take care of families. You take away the family to take care of and a lot of guys after they take care of their basic needs are good for life.

My other theory is to just legalize and properly license/tax sex work. But I’m starting to realize if this were to happen a lot of the dating market may just die off and a lot of guys will probably check out of the finding a wife game. I think as a society we are in a bad place we possibly over corrected to much and are leaning too heavy on the left for most people.

How can another person you have no clue about who they are change your reality? Especially if you've been raised within a functifunctional family unit.
 

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Pimp talk, game, swag, all that got pilfered from and repackaged into manosphere garbage. It's not new. Various factions learned the ins and outs of the social fault lines, plugged into where the disaffected hung out online, pulled together youthful energy - rage, apathy, ennui, you name it - under a nice shiny banner and gave it a purpose.

Chaos.

The ironic thing is that that's all paleface problems. They've earned every second of their misery. How black men and women want to jump into that mix is beyond stupid. You're lining up to be infected by these people? You ain't them, and more importantly: they are not you. You're not discovering the wheel with this. You've been sold a shiny package of bullshyt in exchange for the idea of acceptance and belonging to something that has no substance, no endgame nor purpose other than itself. Which is hilariously stupid. You have your own business to be about. This is just wasted time and energy that you don't get back.

There's no win to be had here. It's all just chaos.


1. Noise does not necessarily equate to numbers.
2. Never underestimate the ability of shared/allied delusions to metastasize into larger stupidities.
3. Group enough shared delusions together and they inevitably will try to codify their delusions into a belief system.




As you were:hubie:
 
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The people buying into those circles are obviously hurt people. People who have chips on their shoulders.

But how about the people who don't walk around hurt? How about mentally healthy people who have been hurt, but have learned to build acceptance and forgiveness? People who don't carry and bring resentment with them into everyone they meet and everything they do?

Would they choose to surround themselves with people like that, who choose to let animosity drive them and be in those circles?

Probably not.

If you are mentally stable, doing well for yourself, have healthy relationships and interactions with loving and trustworthy people around you, etc. then you probably stay far away from those communities. In fact you'd probably label those communities and people who have chips on their shoulders as "toxic".

So ask yourself who'd you rather be? The red piller or the winner?

It's easy to be a red piller. Anybody can be a fukking red piller. All you got to do is point fingers. Keyboard warriors. It's actually funny it's called "the red pill" because in the movie the red pill is supposed to be choosing reality for what it is, but in this regard it's choosing to run away from reality and not learning to accept it. People complain about other people and think they're doing something. Nope.

At day's end, it requires significant effort and humility to develop the acceptance and forgiveness needed to become a genuine winner. You must truly release your ego and embrace life as it unfolds. This involves living with gratitude for life's positives, savoring them deeply. Simultaneously, you must release the negative events from your past, learning from them, but not carrying them forward and projecting them onto innocent individuals.

The key is to be both vulnerable and accountable. You must take your best shot with the available data, understanding that you cannot anticipate everything. If things do not go as planned, you must think on your feet and deal with the situation. It is not productive to shut down and protect yourself from hypothetical scenarios, leading to a life of paranoia, delusion, and pessimism, with a massive chip on your shoulder. This is not living. Ironically, this is something that red pillers discuss frequently, but rarely put into practice because it is one of the most challenging and mature steps to take. It is not as simple as pointing fingers. However, the rewards of vulnerability and accountability far outweigh anything a red piller can hope to achieve.
 
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I don’t have beef with him either but I’ve noticed some things over the past couple years. All his talking points are same depending on the thread topic:

1. Puffy destroyed black marriages
2. Landlords and employees need executions
3. Gen Z is pushing back against the simping damage done by Gen X
4. The south ruined hip hop with stripper culture and simping

You can boil it all down to these. You can tell a lot of it comes from a place of hatred and bitterness
:picard:
Wait, what?!
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