Because introverts... I can relate. Not very inclusive - asocial or antisocial types, it's an energy drain and we have to mentally prepare for this type of shyt. I'm famous for backing out of things at the last minute, if I don't feel like it. There's only select people or personalities that I like to associate with depending on the mood too... (this wedding/reception stuff... blahhhhh, I don't do those)
Hard to understand, I don't have a problem saying shyt to anyone at anytime. Good or Bad, got me thrown out some exceptional places